if i lost my virginity 7 yers ago...?

Question

so i lost my virginity 7 yrs ago, becuase i was raped (i am now 15)

so now i am a SECONDARY virgin, and im waiting til marriage to have sex again. but my question is, i heard that sex hurts the 1st time. so since i already had sex for the 1st time, will it hurt with my future husband

Answer 1

It probably won't be as bad because your hymen was broken already, but you may still experience some discomfort because your vagina is not used to being stretched to accommodate a penis on a regular basis.

Answer 2

First of all, sex does not hurt everyone the first time. It did not hurt me at all. And secondly, I would actually suggest that you seek some kind of counseling for the rape...ONLY because it could have an impact in how you relate to your future husband. I have been dealing with sexual abuse in counseling for a while now that I am in a relationship where it is part of it. And I was shocked with how not-okay I am emotionally when it came to that (it is hard to just 'get over' something like that). But that is just from experience and a personal suggestion. I commend you for wanting to make sure the person you CHOOSE to lose your virginity to is your husband.

Answer 3

This will all depend on how comfortable sex is for you. Whether you are a virgin or not sex can hurt depending on the circumstances. Mainly you will need to remember to relax and make sure you are well lubricated to avoid any pain if possible.
Also, please don't worry about having sex at 15. Such a terrible thing happened to you when you were young but enjoy your teen years and worry about adult situations when you are an adult.
Best of luck

Answer 4

First of all, rape doesn't count as losing your virginity. If there was full penetration, your hymen might have torn, which means sex with your future husband probably won't be as painful for you, but it might still be a little uncomfortable - it usually is when you first start out. Don't worry though, you'll be fine.

Answer 5

Well, if you are not relaxed and your muscles are all tensed (boy word for it: tight) then you may feel some discomfort. But if you are relaxed enough, and ready to have sex then it should be a pleasurable experience. Your hymen should definitley be broken now (unless in a rare case it stretched) so you should NOT feel the slight stinging you would feel if your hymen wasn't broken.

Good Luck, and I am sorry for your terrible past event.
:-(

Answer 6

19, freshman in college What confident me to do it? I "fell in love" for the 1st time. No, i don't be apologetic approximately it, he replace right into a great guy. I disagree including your assessment of the common GS individual. i think of seventy 5% are single, and the conventional age is probably 25. purely of venture, yet i've got been right here enormously much 2 years now, so I word issues.

Answer 7

yes sweetie sex hurts!!! if they are doing it right it does hurt and since you are so young you arent going to get the full meaning and orgasim! But i will tell you this sex should be about love with you since you have been through the worst1 i was sexually assulted and the first time i had sex after it was really weird and i started shaking be careful and good luck

Answer 8

yes it still will hurt. your not active so your very tight below.

please be honest and tell him about the rape. i was raped at age 3 so i understand you wont bleed but it will hurt and i am sorry you had to go through this

Answer 9

you could feel some discomfort at first (since you aren't sexually active on a regular basis & and it has been so many years) but when you repeatedly keep doing it..it won't hurt at all. :)

Answer 10

Sorry

Even though I have the answer right in front of me.

I won’t give it to you.

Enjoy the next few years of sweet anticipation.