Help, someone! I am 22 years old I have a crush on my chiropractor. He is about 20 years older than me(but he does not look it at all.) and he is the nicest man ever. I don't know why, I am just really attracted to him and find myself thinking about him a lot. I see him 3x/week, but I wish it was more. He has children but is no longer married. I want to give him a hint but I don't know how. We talk a lot when I visit and he has given me a few hugs(but maybe he does it with everyone). I even had a dream about him a few days ago. What should I do?
Oh, and please no unnecessary comments about the age difference, I have always been attracted to older men and it does not bother me.
2007-12-04 13:46:49 · 28 answers · asked by ♠ Makela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
***Oh, also last weekend he asked me about my weekend plans and I mentioned I don't have a ton of friends and he told me I was an attractive aldy and very nice and sweet..
2007-12-04 13:50:56 · update #1
well, maybe you should find out more about him and his personal life before you make any necessary advacements. sometimes, its best if a doctor do not cross over from patients to dating them because it might be a policy or it might not work out so well, and lots of other reasons. but if you really like him, then talk with him about normal stuff, maybe flirt alittle so that he might hint that you like him, but don't do anything to rash to wild that might make him uncomfortable. then if he is responding to your advancement, then i guess you can ask him out, but think this through carefully. i have see cases where doctor and their patients married before, so it's an open possibility that might happen. good luck to you.
2007-12-04 13:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time ask him, if he celebrates Christmas and start a conversation. Then say, your biggest Christmas wish is to find a sincere boyfriend and let it take its course. If he is interested in you and is not attached to someone else he might get the hint. If not, let it go and move on.
Well next time he askes you what your plans are for the weekend, let him know, that you don't have any plans. "The tons of friends thing...." wasn't a good answer.
2007-12-04 13:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What must you DO? this is no longer as in case you have that many ideas. he's married. He in all probability is conscious of you have a weigh down on him. Ask him to advise somebody else (if he asks why, merely make something up - i understand you already understand a thank you to try this),or greater helpful yet, ask your buddies or HMO service and detect a advantageous, perferably lady, surgeon. this is no longer as in case you owe him an explantion. playstation : he's MARRIED. forget approximately approximately it - this is no longer gonna take place, and that's a stable ingredient for all worried. in case you maintain making up excuses to confirm him you at the instant are not even giving your self an excellent gamble.
2016-09-30 21:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by woodell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just casually ask him if he was hungry and maybe wanted to get some lunch. (play around with it , you know like oh I know you are hungry after all this working we should get something to eat.) just an example I don't know ask him what do he think about younger women. because chances are he probably won't say anything to you because of the professionalism that he wants to keep and or he don't think you like older men. So you need to go for it. even if he don't want to go he is still going to be flatter and flirt with you. Good luck
2007-12-04 13:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by LC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's crossing the line of Doctor/Patient. If you aren't receiving any signals from him I wouldn't say a thing. You might end up losing a good doctor. Age has nothing to do with it.
2007-12-04 13:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's nothing wrong with telling him, however, he is bound by ethics not to date his patients. Doctors, especially ones with a good "bedside manor" are easy to be attracted to. They show compassion and caring.
Nothing wrong with being attracted to older men, I have been that way my whole life as well. I have dated men who have daughters older then me.
2007-12-04 13:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by lavender_ties 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just continue to dream about him.
There are inherent dangers and a general instability about relationships where one partner is in a position of power over the other - teacher/student, doctor/patient, etc.
2007-12-04 13:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
girl... listen here... age does not matter... my boy friend is almost 30 and i am 20. don't let minor details get in the way. and he is a doctor... so good for you and best of luck. and remember, you only live once :0)
2007-12-04 13:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by krisden 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well sometime soon when you go in,
mention something like going out for some coffee or lunch one day, but mention it casually.
See what he says, and how his reaction is.
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2007-12-04 13:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah drop is some hints. Also try to friends with his kids. It might help him start to think about you!
2007-12-04 13:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋