please answer this question and be honest...i'll give you 10 points....please!!!!!!!! i need to know what you think
2007-12-04 13:31:16 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its fine. Im 18 in a couple of months and iv never had sex, been kissed or had a bf. but what does it matter? im only 17, im still trying to discover myself and my thoughts and feelings, and i am not going to rush into anything just because its the 'norm' for most teenagers to have had sex or a bf/gf by now. dont let anyone get you down about this as its none of their business and im sure you wont have to wait long before you find yourself a really nice guy. just concentrate on yourself and your family and friends and what you want out of life and the rest will just happen. now is the time to make the big decesions about your future before anything gets in the way and you end up in a position where you cannot fullfill your dreams or are unsure of what to do next.
you are perfectly normal and i dont think you should worry so much about it. people dont like you because of how many bfs you have/havent had, they like you because of who you are. just sit back and enjoy your life before you are tied down with stuff and dont worry about being single. :)
2007-12-05 02:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be normal for an 18 year old girl NOT to have had sexual relations, most girls have had a boyfriend by age 18. However, this day in age, girl are starting to have sex younger and younger, it's kinda scary to think about...
2007-12-04 13:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by ♪♫Just Me♪♫ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. What's the rush, when you consider your life expectancy is early to mid eighties. You have lots of time. You should focus on you, who you are, where you want to be and what it takes to get there. What's normal for you is whats normal for you. Don't pressure yourself or question yourself based upon what others say or do. You are doing what is right for you and you are to be commended for it. Stay strong.
When you're ready you'll know and it will feel right and proper.
You'll also be secure enough in your self to be more selective and make better relationship type decisions. You go girl!!!
2007-12-04 13:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by big dawg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can give me or anyone else 10 points for answering a question.
It is normal for an 18 year old girl to be a virgin (Good for you!!) It's probably not normal that you haven't had a boyfriend yet. But I don't know how social and outgoing you are.
2007-12-04 13:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by midjrsy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Totally normal. Everyone is different. Especially when it comes to relationships and sex. All people have to go at their own pace and start experimenting when it's right for them, and 18 year old has many many years ahead of them for boyfriends and sexual relations.
2007-12-04 13:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not unusual at all. There could be any number of reasons for not having had a close relationship from "saving" yourself to being too shy to talk to someone you're interested in, to just not finding anyone you're interested in. The thing is to acknowledge whatever it is keeping you from a relationship and trying to work with it to put yourself somewhere where you might find someone you enjoy being with.
2007-12-04 14:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Carpespasm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal, sure! Average...maybe not. If you haven't had those things and you're 18, it ISN'T A BAD THING! You have all of your adult life to deal with boyfriends and sex. There is absolutely no rush to accomplish this by a certain age! Don't feel like a weirdo...feel proud of yourself!
2007-12-04 13:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never had a boyfriend until I was 19. I wound up getting married when I was 20. Everyone is different, but be in no hurry. He will come along just when you think you will never find the right one.
2007-12-04 13:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by MeanKitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes... very normal. Actually, it's a great thing because you aren't consumed with all the other mess you could be encountering. BF lying, cheating, pregnancy, diseases or all the other stuff you have to understand MAY appear in a sexual relationship or relationship.
2007-12-04 13:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is normal. I would guess this girl is going to be very successful in life. She does well in school, has many friends, and will head off to college. Some of her high school friends are getting married, have had babies, etc. At the 10 year reunion, she will be a doctor and they will be working at Walmart.
2007-12-04 13:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Julie H 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋