One of my girl friends wants me to meet one of her friend's friend...apparently she saw me at a dance and thought i was cute
should i go for this? i'm the guy who has never been on a real date before, and i'm 25 (i never really pursued dating in my life)
i've usually been shy in approaching girls but lately my confidence is rising, should i go for this and try it out and see what this girl is all about? i've never had anyone try to 'hook me up' with someone but who knows? thanks for any advice.
2007-12-04 13:25:39 · 16 answers · asked by Wayne D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey...nothing ventured, nothing gained...the worst thing that could happen is that she rejects you and your confidence sinks down the drain...lol...that wasn't a bit helpful was it? Either way, you'll probably want to get married soon (probably at like 30 or so, so dating at this age when you're still young and attractive would be good).
2007-12-04 13:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by Hideaki Takizawa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The lady I was with for 6 years was killed when her car ran off the road. I did not date for over 4 years and then every one failed for one reason or another so I gave up dating. I was talked into going out with a lady from out of town. I gave in and went out with her. My wife and I have been together 9 years, 10 if you count the year we dated. Go for it. It has been the best earthly thing to happen to me. It is better one love and loose than never love at all. I know the pain of losing one you love. I know the joy of finding true love again. You will never know unless you try.
2007-12-04 13:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Timelord 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yeah, Go for it!!!
You have absolutely nothing to lose. If it doesn't work out, then nothing has changed for you, and you had the opportunity to learn some things, gain some experience.
If you find that the two of you really like each other, then you're off on a wonderful new adventure.
2007-12-04 13:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by casemon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Tell your friend that you're not interested in her. Thanks, but no thanks. I'm sure he will understand, and if not, that's his problem - not yours. I know he's a good friend of yours, but as a good friend, he should respect how you feel about these things. And, while I know prom isn't always as important to a guy as it is a girl, it's still a memorable event and you want to enjoy it with someone you like, not someone you went with because your friend asked you to. Good luck!
2016-05-28 05:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez mate! Half the trouble is getting hooked up in the first place, and that's already sorted. If you decide you don't like her, don't ask her on another date. If you aren't sure, or decide you do like her, then ask her on another date. Remember girls like a man with a plan, so always have in mind a vegetarian restaurant, just in case.
2007-12-04 13:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she displayed interest in you then go for it. The key to winning us women over is to display confidence and just be yourself. Any real women are not phased by the bling, player or coky type. We want man who can make us laugh and keep it real with us.
2007-12-04 13:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by soniqueevents 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, Your 25 and it is time spread your wings a little. Fly. You will never know unless you try. Never pass up an opportunity. This may be your fate! This may be your future. But you will never know unless you try. There is only failure in never trying!
2007-12-04 13:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Pam K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, what's the worse that can happen? You don't hit it off and you are back to how you are now? Give it a shot there is nothing left to lose but there is a lot to gain...think about it.
2007-12-04 13:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Moon Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, go ahead. keep in mind what you want for yourself in a friend or otherwise.
maybe this friend thinks she's helping you by getting you involved with someone she knows to break or mold you into, let's say a "BOY TOY, THREE WAYS".
maybe to self glorify herself for being the first to have you on a date.
2007-12-04 13:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by benejueves 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it, i mean what are you going to loose? i bet a real nice girl huh! go for it, dont hook up on the first date, but most importantly haver fun
2007-12-04 13:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋