2007-12-04 13:23:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be polite, have a good sense of humor and treat her like a lady.
2007-12-04 13:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Angela C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman and I can answer this question for you. Firstly, I want to say that Looks don't attract me - it's always the person and that is what makes the attraction. It's not really about the outward apperance - it's the personality - the way they behave, (if they are kind, courteous, polite, funny, whatever) this is what attracts me to a man. I'm married now but before I was married, I never really found the outward appearance the main attraction. Thats just the shell and if they are perfect looking, that dosn't mean they have perfect personalities or are kind or whatever. I was attracted to my husband because 1) He was kind 2) He liked animals Those were the two most imporant things for me. what are your hobbies or interests? You may attract a lady who has the same interests or hobbies as you? You sound like a nice guy and you sound as though you would treat a lady like gold. But let a lady know this. You don't always have to be confident either. This comes with time and age, I believe, when I met my husband, he could hardly look at me(would go red in the face) Slowly, as we got to know each other, so did the confidence. Try to focus on what is "attractive" about you. Are you a funny guy? Are you giving? Can you hold a good conversation? Also, if you wanted to work on your physical appearance, there must be something nice about you. Maybe you have interesting eyes or straight teeth? Or maybe you have a lovely head of thick hair? Maybe you have good skin? Maybe long legs? Look for something - even if is dosn't seem significant. Try to stay healthy and happy. Get regular exercise and eat healthy meals. Keep smiling - a girl loves a guy who smiles!! Try to pay a lady a compliment too. Maybe a girl likes you out there, its just a matter of finding her or her finding you. I wish you well. I was like you when I was young. I'm sure you will find the right girl. Hang in there. Your probably worth waiting for! Good luck!
2016-05-28 05:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good place to start is with the cover, meaning dress. Look at catalogs, find pictures of clothing and accessories that you think will look good on you. Spend a little, but try and come up with clothing combinations that you can mix and match. The goal is to present a finished product. Dressing nicely/fashionably makes a statement...one that is loud and clear to women. Besides, looking trim and well groomed will do wonders to your self confidence.
Also pick up a book on trivia. Read it, trying to remember all that you can about anything and everything. Trivia is a great way to open a conversation with anyone in a group including women. Concentrate on how manners orginated and then practice them.
Opening doors for women (including car doors), letting them order first at dinner engagements, pulling chairs out for them and helping with coats and jackets will not go unnoticed.
Be honest, trying to impress with sensationizations, telling little lies will also do anything but attract.
Practice humor, perhaps jokes for a start, but be careful. Concentrate on jokes that are not racid or foul but clean. Find jokes that fit seasons, events or holidays that are light hearted.
2007-12-04 14:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by dmallen321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be the best looking to attract women, or be a major flirt. Just talk to women and make them laugh, show them who you really are. And most of all smile! It is the most attractive thing about a person
2007-12-04 13:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. and take a risk! even if you are shy. because you only live once! and you could be surprised!
and nothing is perfect, so of course you may be rejected once or twice. but that only means that they were not meant for you. and you can keep going to find the right one for you. remember, you should never want to settle. NEVER.
if you're out some night with friends, then try EYE CONTACT. just ease your way in. i know that always worked for me. if i noticed a guy that was paying attention to me.by eye contact, a couple times. then I'd make my way over my self or signal him to come over to me.
but since you are the guy, i suggest you DON"T signal the girl over to you. i think only girls should be able to do that. guys should be the one to go over. but of course its okay if she approaches before you signal.
give a dating website a try. sure there is some negative talk about dating websites, like it's only for desperate people, or whatever else people say, but anyone else that's on a dating site is just as much a person as you. soo blah blah. i met my husband on there. and i couldn't be any happier.
that's especially a perfect place for shy people.
i could go on about other situations in life of what you should do, but that would just take me forever. and all in all, it's just about taking a chance. go for it!
2007-12-04 13:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by SimpleMo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be funny. I used to know this guy who was like you said average looking and shy but as i got to know him better i found he was a jokester. It made him jump out to me when i found that out. I think a guy who can laugh at himself is so attractive. But then again that's just me.
2007-12-04 13:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by ribspur53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to be shy...
just remember to be yourself...respectful....sweet...kind...and be funny
girls look for guys with some confidence...BUT NOT TOO MUCH!
lol
You'll Know when It's time to break out of your shell...
give your self time...
2007-12-04 13:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..hate to say it. but be yourself.
..just get out there. if your shy. don't say anything. just go a coffee shop, a club, someplace social. wear something you feel good in, and just be there. eventually, you'll find a regular girl to talk to who can introduce you to friends..
I don't know much about you..where you are in life..what you like to do. so I can't be of much help. but, I can say this. make friends. meet their friends. expand your social circle.
talk to a girl. if only to say "hi" when you see her. if she's available..she'll come and talk to you when you say one word..and walk away. ..
don't ask me why that one works..but it does..
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I hope everything goes well with you.
best of luck finding that girl.
2007-12-04 13:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by 流星 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a girl that shares your interests
get to know her
hang out with her and her friends
you'll find yourself being less shy
2007-12-04 13:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by colts fan78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whip out your huge junk....
Okay, seriously... just be confident and be yourself. Try to get over the shy thing... if you don;t talkto girls they are not going to just talk to you.
Good luck!
2007-12-04 13:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋