Alright there is this girl I really like, she has the greatest personality, is funny, athletic, smart, and beautiful. I went way too fast and screwed up the first time, and when I asked her to homecoming she let me down softly. Now I have tried to back off so I don't look like a stalker.
Since then she has opened up to me. She starts conversations with me, she is hyper when I'm around, she flirts with me. We have even gone snowboarding together a few times and hang out.
What would your reaction be if a couple months later, a guy says to you "you know, after you let me down I've tried to get over the fact that you don't like me. But somehow your personality and smile speak to me in a way that make that impossible"
I look deep into your eyes as I say that with true sincerity on my face. It comes from inside, not some cheesy thing that doesn't really mean anything. What would your reaction be girls? Would you give me a chance?
2007-12-04 12:33:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I totally would, but all girls are different. If she does tho, be sure to move slow. Also, she sounds liek she still lieks you, so how bout you be the one to stay away, and she will want you even more. Do something surprising and sweet and totally unexpected, we love that kinda stuff......don't be stupid and silly around her. Jus do everything nice, and be funyn when she is and flirt back, but dont seem desperate. Oh yeah, goodluck
2007-12-04 12:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a really great guy. Very honest. But I don't like it when guys come on that strong. It makes me feel uneasy. That is the kind of thing you say after you've been dating a few months. Although it is a wonderful thing to say it really is. Young girls like a little bit of a bad boy. Easy going and not too deep. I'm guessing she didn't react the way you wanted. My advice is try to date someone else and let her see that you are not all caught up in her. I know there is no one else that interest you but try and cut free for a little while. You may just see her interest perk up. good luck.
2007-12-04 21:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really say what she would say, but I know I'd rethink dating you and take it into consideration. She seems to have grown into having an interest in you.. unless she's just trying to be nice, which is a possibility. I suppose the best thing you can do is try again.. but don't try a third time if it doesn't work out. There's nothing more annoying than a stalker who can't give up.
2007-12-04 20:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES... and it seems if she is flirting with you and going places just YOU & HER--there is a good possibility that she is just waiting on you now! I say go for it. If you don't you might miss this opportunity. And hey, if she still says no, just be there for her as a friend and trust me she will come around--- persistance is key. If you let go, you might loose the best thing that might happen to you.
2007-12-04 20:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times its realy hard for girls to regain trust try just being her friend for a while then ask her on a casual date and let things go slow and make shure your not pushing her. If she is taking and flirting with you she is probly willing to five you a nother chance so id go for it.but you have to remember we as girls are way more emotional so we take things harder so make shure you realy like her before you start asking her out
2007-12-04 20:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 'hurt' because she turned you down months ago makes you come off like a wimp.
Get your head out of the past. If she's liking you better now, just ask her out again.
2007-12-05 07:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i tell you what if she does not give you a chance after that she has to be somewhere near stupid!! i know i would lookback at you smiling an say i'am so sorry that i let you down before. yes i will give you a chance!
Good luck!
2007-12-04 20:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give you a chance but you have to make sure that it is truly coming from the deepest part of your heart and you mean every single word you say to her...ya know..the truth!
2007-12-04 20:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Sure!!! you sound like an awesome person!! I would totally give you a second chance, but its more like she gets the second chance, she should feel lucky!!
2007-12-04 20:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say "but being around you makes that impossible." personality is what ugly people have, and everybody loves it when a girl smiles. and don't say somehow, it sounds like you don't know how you feel, and you know that you like her so it isn't true. or say something like "being around you makes me feel awesome."
otherwise, it would depend on if I liked you, really. but this girl sounds like she likes you, so no problem.
2007-12-04 20:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by rozefyre86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋