this guy i like was talking to me on IM one night and he asked who i liked, so i told him that i liked him. He seemed cool with it and we kept talking. the next day, he sits next to me in one of my classes and starts flirting big time. like playing with my computer and joining in on every conversation. After this he doesnt talk to me anymore on IM and when he does is very brief. Last night i tried to talk to him and he left in exactly five minutes, right up to the last second. then, in school today, he tries to talk to me more like joining in on my conversations and helping me with my work and stuff. then he sits right behind me in writing and we were both turned around so we would occasionally make eye contact.
but i like him and i wanna know if he likes me too.
what game is he trying to play???
2007-12-04 11:40:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probebly intimidated by your honesty, by saying you liked him to his face you are ready to take it to the next level. He's probably frigid and those moments he goes cold he's getting nervous, the times he's flirtatious he's enjoying the idea of you liking him. Just grab him and kiss him then make your relationship official before someone else gets their hands on him. By the sounds of it he's not going to make the first move because he's too frigid...
2007-12-04 11:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why were you timing how long he spoke to you; it is not like you guys are involved(not that that will make it okay).Sometimes such behavior may make a guy back away for fear that you are clinging, demanding, controlling, and maybe even a potential stalker.He is flirting with you--- which is a way of courtship---and there is nothing in your piece to suggest that he is playing a game.If you are anxious or desperate to know how he feels about you, simply ask him or try finding out in conversation.Your other choice is to take it nice and slow and see where it leads which is what I advise.
2007-12-04 12:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL omygawd! i have the same thing happened with me cept this dude even asked if i wanted a boyfriend or to be in relationships --------i think he likes you alot ----but he just feels weird bout it --he's flattered--if he's that open and comfortable on that level he's pretty much into you the way ur into him
2007-12-04 11:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by hmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the difficult ingredient approximately "love", "domestic dog love" or despite human beings call it now. the main suitable ingredient to do is to ask him. particular, i recognize that's stressful to do, yet once you ask him you would recognize. you do no longer ought to flow as much as him and say "hello, do you like me?", this can provide a diverse effect then you truly assume. I recommend you attempt to ask him if he needs to do something after type, or get your friends mutually and visit the videos, the mall or despite you like doing. sometimes only asking to spend time with yet another individual asks the question of in the event that they such as you or no longer by using itself. in spite of the undeniable fact that do no longer undertaking approximately it if he only got here approximately to choose to be effectual or despite, there are extra fish in the sea then you truly can probable meet in a existence time.
2016-10-10 06:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes playing hard to get
as for the IM conversations...maybe he's busy
or maybe he wants to save all the talk for in person ;)
2007-12-04 11:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by George Johnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes either nervous or has a gf.
2007-12-04 11:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Angie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋