my boyfriend usally isnt like this but.. i told him not to talk to this one girl because she always says sexual things on his comments an she always writes him on myspace.. he knows i dont like her an i made him delete her an he said that was fine no problem.. this was the only girl i had a problem wiith.. an hes never like this but i think hes talkin to her behind my back.. i read this his comment about that girl i hate told his sister to tell him sorry i got off the computer it froze on me.. so he was either on myspace or aim talking to her.. i cant believ he did this.. i would never do that to him.. what should i say or do?? help please.
2007-12-04 10:20:55 · 26 answers · asked by JBaByGurL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cant stop stressing about this.. it worries me should i be? please serious answers
2007-12-04 10:23:41 · update #1
also this girl i hate is his sisters good friend.. i love him an this hurts i asked him once but he keeps doing it..
2007-12-04 10:26:52 · update #2
i dont keep him from talking to all girls just her.. an for the lady who said its not my business.. okay that makes sense if someone you would do anything for and you love to death give him the world an then you find out hes talkin to her behind your back you would be worried also
2007-12-04 10:30:01 · update #3
THANK YOU TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO ARE GIVING ME ADVICE.. I APPRECIATE IT
2007-12-04 10:32:16 · update #4
to anwser a question im 17 years old an female.. 18 in two months
2007-12-04 10:43:07 · update #5
Well have you tried to talk to the girl and ask her why she always says sexual things to him even though he is with you?You should get her side of the story too because maybe your boyfriend isn't telling her that you don't want him talking to her.Tell your boyfriend that he really needs to respect you and that you don't feel right with him talking to her.Don't argue with him,if he tries to argue with you just tell him that you just want to be respected and if he can't do that than really you shouldn't be with him.If he really loves you than he will stop talking to her and stop lying to you.You said you really love him but if he has to lie to you about things and sneak behind your back than the two of you can't have a good relationship.Trust is one of the most important things in a good relationship.You also have to give respect and be respected.Since his sister is friends with the girl than he can't say he will never see the girl again or anything but he can say he will not talk to her no more than to say hey.Just remember that you need to be respected and if he can't give that to you than he isn't worth having.If some other girl is more important than oh well...there are more guys out there that will respect you and your wishes.Good Luck.
2007-12-04 10:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by crazymoma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, wish I did. It seems like you are a teenager, so I will answer it that way. I'm sorry to tell you this, but your boyfriend has made up his mind that he likes this other girl more than you. Yes, it's true. Because he is doing this behind your back, it is his way of having someone on his mind when he breaks up with you. His feelings are not on the same page as yours are. He might not break up with you right away, but there is a 75%-80% chance he will. I hope I'm wrong, but not likely. You don't need someone like this in your life. He don't care for your feelings. He would not treat you like this if he did. You must look outside of the box to get the true meaning of his behavior. You should put him on your, "NOT TO DO LIST". All he will do is hurt you, then laugh behind your back. I don't want you to get your tender emotions torn apart at this young age. There are alot of boys out there who will be honest to you. Don't get caught up in his game. I hope I helped you decide on what you will do about this situation.
God Bless You and stay safe.
2007-12-04 10:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's every girlfriend's nature to feel worried about what her boyfriend is up to. I mean, you wouldn't want to lose him. So it's totally understandable that you're stressing out. But you just need to get to the bottom of all of this. If you guys have a true and honest relationship, then you should know when he's lying or telling the truth. If not, it wouldn't hurt to snoop around and ask people if they know w'sup with your boyfriend and the other girl. But the first thing you should do, is just sit him down and talk to him.
2007-12-04 10:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by BEE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very open and honset about my feelings and what bothers me in my relationship and sometimes there is a way to work these things out. you could bring it up. I would say something like I feel as though you have been talking to (whatever the girl's name is.) and then let him fill you in. It works if he feels as though he can trust you and be honest with you without you getting to a really mad point with him. Explain hoe uncomfortable this relation make you feel and how betrayed you feel as calmly as you can (puppy dog eyes and maybe some tears) Give examples "How would you like it if you were in the same situation?" I hope I could be of some help. If you don't mind let me know how this all works out for you.
2007-12-04 10:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by Hello Kitty 2442 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this really bothers you, ask him about it. If he cares for you he will either tell the truth, or sort of tell you the half truth. There is probably nothing going on between them, but you could ask the girls friends, your boyfriends friends, or even stalk a little, find out his email pass. It sounds bad, but once you know nothing is going on just forget about it. And if there is, break up with him. Not for cheating as much as lying.
2007-12-04 10:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is hard, but you cant tell a guy not to talk to a girl, they think its exciting when its not allowed and they will continue doing it on purpose. sometimes even when their relationship is purely platonic he will start showing her interest simply because he's not allowed to.
what to do? you ignore that girl. no matter how bad u hate her, you act as if you dont give a rats *** whether she exists or not. this way, the excitment for you bf wears out (it takes time but it will)... just show that you have no opinion about that girl and you dont really care whether he talks to her or not. tell him i dont really give a damn whether u chose to speak to her or not...
good luck
2007-12-04 10:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzie_Livingstock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 12:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by legrand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have a decision to make. It is doubtful he will just stop talking to other girls because you said so. What we are talking about here is someone's nature. Can you tolerate it or not? If no, GO. If you can, he's your man.
2007-12-04 10:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by Whynot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
looking at your profile,. and I mean your picture. It appears that you are a man, although, you haven't made this clear. So, it seems to me, why are you worried about a girl?
If, however, I'm totally wrong, then 'my appologies' and perhaps some grammar and typing lessons may help?
2007-12-04 10:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it hurts you that he is talking to the girl you hate behind you back but their is only two things you can do:
-ignore it, its not really any of you business anyways. I really don't think its anything you should worry about. chances are he just talks to her bc shes a whore and guys like having whores as friends but they normally don't like dating them so just cool it.
-break up with him. he couldn't be cheating on you but i highly doubt that.
2007-12-04 10:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by D-weezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋