help i neeeeed a bf?

Question

i need a boyfriend and im pretty (not to be cocky) the only problem is im only out going near my friends im skinny ((15 size 1 jeans im small) but idk what to do help i really want a bf but idk what to do of course i like ppl but they always seem soooo far out of my leage and also flirting tips are great dont just say flirt say how thats more helpful thanks X 12638629362936

o ya ((btw)) thats not my number i would never give it out im just saying "thank you ""times"" a million and whatever"
and im not trying to send out the wrong message im not a mean slutty person i nice i just really want to fit in and have a bf and i feel like i need one at this stage of my life

Answer 1

you're going about this the wrong way. no wonder you don't have a bf! you have no confidence! and i can tell cause you already said, "they are way out of my league."
you need to think, "I'M way out of THEIR league!
and second, you don't NEED a bf! nobody needs one. you may WANT one, but there really is no point or benefit in having a bf. the sooner you figure that out, the better off you'll be. be independent! you don't need a bf to make you feel pretty. you shouldn't have to depend on a stupid bf!!!
you're not supposed to have one just because other girls have one. it's different for everybody, you may not've found the right guy. just wait, your time will come.

Answer 2

You don't need a boyfriend. You may want one, but being desperate about it is the best way to get yourself into a relationship for the wrong reasons. If you're respectful to yourself and looking out for your own happiness, then be patient and work on being confident in yourself as you, before you search for happiness with a guy. Desperation for a guy can only lead to someone who will take advantage of you or not appreciate you the way you deserve to be cherished. Be confident in yourself as a single young lady--that confidence will shine and eventually attract that special someone at a time when you're more ready for a relationship and your motives are true. Remember, you are beautiful with or without a guy to tell you so!

Answer 3

I don't want to sound like your mom, but you don't need a boyfriend to discover who you are. I didn't have a single boyfriend until I found the man I was going to marry. He is much older than I am, and we started dating my Senior year of high school, I would have never started dating him if I had not considered marrying him. (I had known him for years before all of this happened) Give yourself some time to grow, and figure out who you really are! I am so thankful for the choice that I made, and so is my Fiance! Our love is so strong because I knew what I wanted when I found him!

Answer 4

Ok, I totally know what it's like to be skinny, so I hear ya! Probably the best way to get to guys is talk to them. No, it doesn't have to be flirting, it can be just confersation. Ask one of them about hw(but ONLY if you actually need the help, no acting dumb). Start confersation: ex. "Hey, uhhh it's been such a long week I can't wait till' Friday." or if they like a tv show that you like talk about it with them or if you're not familiar with the show ask them to tell them about it. Once you get comferatble with them start to flirt, by giggling, tossing your hair....etc. But maybe if you start talking to them they'll get the courage to ask you out. They could be just nervous to ask you. You said you are pretty, and you probably have a great personality so why wouldn't they want you? Good luck!

Answer 5

First of all... I really don't think you need a boyfriend.

I'm not trying to be rude... but you should try and concentrate on other things... like your education and everything.

But since we're all here to help you and not lecture you... let's see...

Being yourself is the number one thing you can do to get a boyfriend.

If he doesn't like you for who you are... (physical and personality wise) then he's seriously not worth your time.

It takes time.

You need to find someone you feel comfortable with... someone who you love spending time with and who can make you smile and laugh no matter what. If you find the guy, go in for the kill. Let him know you're interested... but don't be all over him... if that makes sense.

Just... be yourself, really... that's all you can really do.

Answer 6

my problem was that guys felt that I was not approachable. I was too pretty to be "nice". maybe that’s your case, smile more, make more eye contact, walk up to guys and just start talking.... maybe read up on sports teams so that you have an area of interest. I wouldn’t suggest going to the bar to meet guys because that makes you look like a tramp but go places where you have an interest and look for guys there. They probably would be higher quality guys and you wouldn’t have to read the sport pages.... good luck!

Answer 7

be social... don't be shy at parties and get to know everyone in the room. don't push someone off because they're your not your typical type. Once you do find someone that likes you... or you really like, drop a couple of hints either directly or if he;'s standing by our friends say "i'd really like boyfriend" or if someone asks you woh you like "oh i like... nevermind - i'll tell you later becuase i wouldnt want him to overhear!" then it'll also give him confidence to ask you out.... and finally - don't think that he has to be the one to ask you out. my best friend asked out this guy and they've been dating for over a year!

Answer 8

i totally understand how u feel. try talking 2 ur friends, and they'll leave u alone 4 a bit 4 some good ol' flirting.get a guy friend, and eventually he'll start 2 like u and ask u out. good luck!!!

Answer 9

Be yourself...
Also you dont need a BF. You should say you would like a BF. Don't think that you need one its not something that validates your life. Okay.... great things come to people that wait.

Answer 10

umm. this is kinda sad. and is that ure number???? cuz if it is that is even more sad and pathetic.. first, you dont give out ure number.

And flirt the way you want. If you are soo desperate to get a bf, then go out there and go find people. dont be picky.