My guy and i have been togather for almost 2 years we used to have sex all the time but now it has changed we both are in the mood sometimes but not all i think i am more then him now when we are done he gets up and sometimes says are you happy now or how was is somthing like that then goes out and smokes a ciggarett or whatever he is large and sometimes will say that he wasn't even hard but he came he says he forced himself to come and he could have kept going the other day he said baby it aint you i am just not happy with how i loook right now but i don't belive him i think he is loosing intest in me but at the same time he calls me before work during work and after work we must talk about 5 hrs per day if we are not togather i am trippen help
2007-12-04 07:18:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah sounds to this old fella like you are making more of it than you probably should. Obviously you two have gone through the honeymoon stage if you've been together for over two years and now things are beginning to settle down to a more regular routine. Besides he may very well have something bothering him. He has told you that he is unhappy with certain aspects of his life so why not discuss them in a mature and open minded conversation. Long lasting relationships last because of amount of conversation, not amount of sex. Be honest and let him know how you've been feeling and what you've been thinking. Hopefully you can both help to put each others minds at ease. Best of luck.
2007-12-04 07:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After a while people usually stop having sex like they did at the beginning of their relationship. if he is insecure with his body then let him know that you still think he is sexy. However the comments after sex seem really rude, you should check him on his attitude.
2007-12-04 15:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by Candy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋