What are your views on life?

Question

Please help a lost & confused teenager!

Answer 1

Life is a series of test. Try to find happiness in everything, be good to others, and never let things get you down. Learn from everything, the good and the bad. I was lost and confused for years, but have recently found a church that I love and Cannot get enough of. Pray and be open hearted the answers will come to you.

Answer 2

I was once confused and so far this is what I have learned... I impress someone when it will make a positive difference in my life. I have cut out the people who do not enhance my way of life in some way. If people aren't willing to be my friend they probably aren't worth the effort anyway. I strive to be better everyday; just for myself. I value honesty, courage, kindness and faithful people. Lately it seems there are too few people like that out there. I have no regrets because even my most horrible mistakes have always brought about something good. Everything happens for a reason, there is no good without bad and finally If I am ever confused, sad or lonely or lost, I hand my life over to God and all becomes right again.

Answer 3

It's getting better all the time!

People (usually ones who don't remember high school, I suspect) will tell you teenage years are the best of your life, however, I'm sure mine were about the worstestest. The older I'm getting, the more I know who I am, who I love, and what I want to be and do. I'm only in my late 20's now, and I'm amazed at how much life has changed for me in the past decade. Hopefully my 30's will just keep getting better.

All I can really tell you is that if you figure out what's good and bad about your life, which things you can change, and which you can't, you'll be well on your way to feeling pretty happy a few years down the road. Decide what kind of person you want to be, and stay on track!

Answer 4

That being teenage is a confusing time. You will find your own way. From one girl to another (although I'm much older) don't throw your education (or career) away because you spend too much time trying to impress boys by focusing on being 'sexy' all the time. You will only get one type of attention for that, and little respect.

Most of all, educate yourself! Life has much more to offer for a well educated person who has class, humility and honour. It has less to offer for under-educated people who have no class, no humility, and no honour.

Real love will come knocking at the door of your heart, not your drawers. Focus and develop your interests.

Have at least one strict discipline in the arts.

Learn to play a musical instrument in your spare time. Take lessons to a proficient grade. Keep it up always. It will be a friend when you are lonely, a treasure when you are in good company, and a pleasure for life.

Be strong. Be good. Enjoy life, it is a wonderful gift!

And in the words of some long lost English compatriot (I forget who it was)...my fave quote is:

"Don't let the bastards grind you down!"

Those words of wisdom have helped me in many situations!

Answer 5

Life's what you make it. It is yours to do with as you wish, so but you have to live with your choices, so make them carefully, and strive to be happy. Manage money well, don't waste it. Respect those who respect you. Don't love people who don't love you back. Keep things in balance, don't overindulge in any one thing. Never stop learning new things. Be kind to animals. Don't borrow or lend. Don't lie. Don't steal. Drive carefully and courteously. Don't leave food unattended on the stove. Don't smoke while lying down. Take care of your teeth, it's not fun to lose one. Never quit a job unless you have another one lined up. Never give notice to a landlord unless you have rented another place already. It will cost you an extra month's rent to give proper notice, but that's ok. Avoid stress at all costs. End relationships that make you unhappy, and don't rush into marriage or parenthood. There is no harm in waiting to be sure it's a good idea. And one more thing: references matter. Get written references from anyone who is impressed with you - mainly landlords and bosses.

That's about all I can think of...oh, one more!

God is imaginary.

Answer 6

All I can do is tell you of my experiences and what I've learned.
Life has balance. For all my ups, I've had downs.
The only person I can control is myself (sometimes).
If you look for crap in life, you will find it.
I'm here to learn something but I haven't a clue what it is.
People who quit being curious and asking questions, veg sooner.
All I can do is my best but someone will always criticize.
Have as much fun as you can and still be healthy.
Sometines just smiling and nodding is the best thing I can do.
I learned to make sure my brain is loaded before I shoot off my mouth.
That's just a start....Keep Cool!!

Answer 7

Life is a long journey with many rewards and disappointments. You have to balance the adversity with the good times and hope for the best. Find good in small things and you will realize all in all human nature is inherently good and this should lift your feelings. Educate yourself, study as much as possible and never give up searching for truth even though you feel you may have already found it.

Answer 8

Life is the most amazing and admirable phenomena that's ever happened. Each individual life is a gift, and should not be wasted or thrown away. Once you've lived your life here on Earth, that's the end, and you never get another chance to experience all these things.

Answer 9

Life is God breathed and precious. Life can be hard at times. You just have to hang in there for the good time(s) to come around again. Each new day is a day that has never been lived before, a blank canvas that is yours to paint.

Answer 10

Live it to the full, its too short to feck around with and get down! Teenage years are spent having sexual interactions, getting drunk and learning to appreciate all things modern! So act today for a brighter tomorrow, do one thing a day that gets your heart racing and live it man!!! Be an optimist!!