later apologizes..like there are times when we have arguments..not like screaming and yelling but more like talking out our feelings..usually he says to me we spoke about th is already..thats it its over with...and i am left with nothing was solved.......he tells me mean stuff and then apologizes later......he does this all the time we have aguments..and i always tell him that he hurts me so bad when eh say mean things it takes alot of energy from me..because i am not one to hurt any ones feelings.......he says he cares about and love me but when he come out his face like this it hurts me.....if someone cares why would they say mean things and later tell you dont take it personel
2007-12-04 07:00:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont like to argue either ..but i do like to say what i am feeling.....this weekend he said some mean stuff and then says hes sorry...it reminds me of the time he was messing around he started bing so mean to me..like he had this i dont care attitude
2007-12-04 07:03:08 · update #1
Hey girl you have been gone for a minute: You guys need to sit down and have a heart to heart conversation and let him know how you feel and it's getting old the way he has been talking to you
2007-12-04 07:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I think you really need to rethink about what kind of relationship you are in and what he means to you! I"m sure your answer is "he means a lot to me" but if that's your answer then you have to think about what it is that means a lot to you! Does it mean a lot to you if your man is disrespectful or does it mean a lot to you that you are loved and respected the way YOU want to be? There are plenty of men out there who are capable of respecting a women and treating you right! They may not all be right for you but you learn as you live your love life, but at least they would have manners. This bf of yours doesnt seem to have any, not to mention did you say he cheated on you before? Sweetiiiieee... I think you have to realize how beautiful you are and what you deserve!!!! Trust me, men come and go out of your life til you find that special someone. Dont be afraid to pass the ones up that arent right for you, especially if they are hurting you emotionally! YOU should take it personal if he hurts you that way. What a dork to say it shouldnt affect you when you Plainly told him it does! He isnt listening to you! You "WILL" learn from this and you will remember your experience! The best thing is not to forget what you want out of a relationship and roll with a guy that best suits you as a mature, healthy couple! Heartaches WILL happen! That's part of learning too, so my advice is find someone who is willing to treat you with respect! EVERYONE deserves it! If you say you dont you are out of your mind!
2007-12-04 07:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you would be to re-evaluate what a friend really is. Although no relationship is perfect, be it a romantic relationship, family relationship, or friendship; but what you must realize is that you have to draw the line somewhere. Contrary to what we may have heard all of our lives, it is not "A Thin Line Between Love and Hate" . You are either on one side or the other. From what you have said, your "friend" has been saying some mean and downright hateful things to you, now he may have issues with himself that are unsolved, but a real friend would not take it out on you. He might even be Bi-Polar. Either way, you have to take care of and watch out for yoursself, this friendship is not healthy, but it is your choice to either stick with it, or leave it alon, until he is ready to change, and be the "REAL" friend he claims to be. But be upfront with him and don't leave anyroom for him to half a** it.
2007-12-05 02:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by KK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. To me this guy sounds like he is trying to manipulate you. I would seriously rethink about the relationship with him as he sounds like he has issues that he needs to get resolved before he can even think about being a good boyfriend.
Please talk to a friend or someone that you trust to help you work this out.
2007-12-04 07:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Su-Nami 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell me about it...I think we should re-evaluate our relationships lol. Because u don't continually say bad things to people that you really don't mean. It's verbal/emotional abuse and it probably won't get better. If he doesn't change get out while you can.
2007-12-04 09:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by goodgirlabout2gobad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just has a bad temper. If he says he loves, that means it's true...
2007-12-04 07:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by ~SuPrEmE_ShInNyA~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋