my bf and I have dating for about 3 months, and having sex weekly, problem is I like to be on top, because it gives me more pleasure and allows him to suck and play with my boobs, which brings on another problem when we are having sex he goes soft on me when we use this position, is this normal. we are not that old both of was are in our 20's
2007-12-04 06:34:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you're on top, he's basically pinned, and not able to move as much as he needs to, to stay hard. Vary your positions: Doggie, scissors, him on top.
There's nothing wrong with his "thing." There just isn't enough sensory input to keep him stimulated with you on top all the time.
2007-12-04 06:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by gromit801 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that he might have a psychological problem with you being on top - just guessing.
My husband and I are always in that position and everything is fine with us. We are both 52.
Good luck.
2007-12-04 06:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Su-Nami 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who know es what normal is anymore.Try changing positions and let him pick one.let him do what he wants.and then your way.I WON'T GO INTO DETAIL. AS IT'S NOT A GOOD IDEA.
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2007-12-04 06:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try reverse cowgirl position. It may be better for the circulation.
2007-12-04 06:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by Stefani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pardon?
2007-12-04 06:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by colonel25743 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he goes limp ... hmm that's serious, if he regularly goes limp in any other positions I'd ask a doctor.
2007-12-04 06:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally like that position myself...it's one of my favorites....i like to do those things you mentioned too! if he's going soft maybe he's stressed out and thinking of other things...does he go soft if you're in other positions?
2007-12-04 06:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cupcakes Moosey! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, he should be honest about how he really feels. If he doesnt know why, you should go ask a doctor
2007-12-04 06:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are cutting off the circulation so to speak!
2007-12-04 06:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it shouldn't be. Maybe it's physcological
2007-12-04 08:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋