I suspect this girl likes me and there is a whole load of other events which add weight to my arguement. On monday at the bus stop when I came she got up and opened her body to me and was looking me like she was telling me to make a move, then today I was sitting and her body was facing me I looke at ther and she tilited her head in reconzige, does she like me?
2007-12-04 06:24:02 · 13 answers · asked by answers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can help you with this one.
The next time you see her and you think she has noticed you, casually go over to her and say something like this:
Hello, My name is Answers4. I have seen you several times here, and I wanted to meet you.
Hopefully she will respond in kind by telling you her name. Pretend it is Lucy. Next you say something along the lines of "Lucy, I would like to meet you for coffee one day and get to know you. Can I have your home phone number?" Say nothing else, but listen and watch carefully.
If she is interested, she will pull out a piece of paper or ask you for one or whatever, and she will give you the number. ANY OTHER RESPONSE means she is NOT interested. She may say something like, "Well, I am not home much" or "I don't really give out my number to strangers" or "I am leaving town and won't be back for 30 years" or "Let me just give you my work number." Whatever she says other than giving you the home phone number is a polite way of telling you she is not interested.
Don't get too excited yet if she gives you the number. That does not mean that she IS interested. It just means she might be.
If she DOES give it to you without hesitation, DO NOT CALL HER IMMEDIATELY. If she is a particularly pretty or popular girl, she is used to lots of guys calling her. Most guys will get overeager and call immediately. You need to play it cool and wait at least 5-7 days before calling. It gives her time to think about the fact you got her number and haven't called yet. She will wonder about it and wonder why you would not immediately call such a great catch as her. I know this flys in the face of conventional wisdom, but just try what I am telling you. She needs to feel like she has to catch you instead of the other way around.
When you call, the conversation should be short and to the point. You want to spend time face-to-face with her, not on the phone. Use the phone to ask her out for a date, not to get to know her. Preferably ask her for a weekday and not a weekend. Let her think you are so busy on the weekends that the only time you can work her in is on a weekday.
If you do get a date, let her do 80% or more of the talking and you listen. Don't talk about any serious subjects. Keep conversation light and funny. Do not tell her how crazy you are about her, give her flowers, or anything like that. That's what all the other guys do. She needs you to be a challenge to her. No gifts, flowers, or overeagerness until you have several dates under you hat.
Hope it helps...
2007-12-04 06:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by Love Guru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she does like you but instead of talking to us and asking us what we think you should talk to her and ask her out sometime and see what she says, but if you keep stalling then I know that she will find someone else because us females only send so many signs until we just give up and move along to someone new because if you are not interested we can usually tell by the way that you guys act
2007-12-04 14:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's no way to know for sure unless you go up to her and talk to her about it.
If you like her as well, tell her how you feel and see what she has to say about it. Her body language indicates that she may be interested.
2007-12-04 14:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be telling you she likes you,then again she might be saying i want you,and may simply prooving to her mates that she can have you if she wants,theres a lot of things it could mean,just play it cool then you wont feel foolish if its any kind of joke.
2007-12-04 14:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes well I think she wants to get to know you, start a conversation she won't be there forever
2007-12-04 14:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Rainbowsssss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to tell but just say Hi and see by the way she talks to you then maybe we can tell if she likes you
2007-12-04 14:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by jessica p 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that she wants have anything with you. Don't know if it's just flirt or date, but something is.
2007-12-04 14:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well jus go and make the move and see what happens next
2007-12-04 14:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Jones 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does she want what please explain. this is not a question bue a rambling , so how is anyone expected to understand what you are on about.
2007-12-04 15:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she does
2007-12-04 14:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Debbie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋