So my mom is going away this weekend about one hour away and so is my brother like an hour and a half away. And I dont live with anyone else. Im thinking about have a couple ppl over for a party.. not really a party cos there wouldnt be a lot of people maybe like 8 or ten. But i wanna know is this a bad idea? I really wanna do it and i have before but i gor caught because my brother wasnt out of town and he was at his friends house and forgot something and had to come home to get something and when he got there he saw an empty beer can. But i denyed it all. Anyways any suggestions ?
oh yea im not staying at my moms the whole weekend.. ill be at my dads and ill tell him im going to a friends when really im going to stay at my moms.
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how about if i jus have one guy friend over is that better?
2007-12-04 05:51:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
becasue there will be drinking.. duh
2007-12-04 05:58:26 · update #1
do the one guy friend. It will be easier to keep quiet versus a group of people.
2007-12-04 05:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Scott 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being dishonest isn't a good idea. I did that when I was in high school a few times to my mother. It put a trust barrier between mine and my mom's relationship. I'm only 20 and I wouldn't do it again. Your mother is leaving you there becuase she feels she can trust you. I don't think your dad would be too happy either. That's both parent's trust you lost just for a few hours of fun. Which could lead to being grounded for a while fun free.
It may not be what you want to hear. But the reality is, your family's trust should mean more than an impulse that can lose it all.
2007-12-04 13:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a freind over or like 4 buddies like a movie night is fine. more than that don't do it. Don't do anything (too many people) that you wouldn't do when you mom or brothe were there. if you have sex so what you don't need 9 other people. if you have too many people at the house who to say your neighbors won't call the police and or tell your mom who all they say leaving and entering your house. You neighbors and your father know how to reach your mother not just you. remeber that!!! Dad might let you stay at home but Dad also might have spoke with your mom. Safety first. you can have fun without the (casual party)
2007-12-04 13:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Dy$e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
skip the party. when you're expecting 10, word of mouth and before you know it, you'll have 100 and the house will be trashed. no 'level of popularity' is worth that.
that one 'guy friend' is gonna expect to get some, if you invite him over. if you have no issues with that, go right ahead.
oh and by the way, the people who curse you and judge you on here, they're all bunch of losers who stayed home on weekends when they were younger. they hate you cuz you're actually cool. to all you losers out there, like YOU never lied to your parents??? are you really all SAINTS?? LOOOSERSSSS!!!!
so yeah, i remember what it was like, although it's been 20 years since i got kicked out of my parents house(at age 18).... but anyways, even if it's small number of people, skip the party cuz ones who aren't invited would feel hurt.
2007-12-04 13:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight. You're trying to use a group of complete strangers on the internet to justify your lies.
A lie is a lie. Have you considered the truth and see what it's like to be trusted by your parents? Personally, my kids would be in such hot water if they did this kind of crap. Guess you know my opinion, huh?
2007-12-04 13:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by Woods 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a bad idea. As long as it wouldn't get too big it probably won't be that bad, assuming you destroy (or throw away) all the evidence.
But in all likelihood, someone would find out and you'd be toast.
2007-12-04 13:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all it sounds like your really unsure anyway, and it doesnt really seem like that great of an idea. If its only like eight or ten people anyway why dont you just ask your dad if you can have people over?
2007-12-04 13:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really up to you. if you think you can get away with it. why dont you just ask if you can have a couple of friends over. hang out. if not. just dont get caught.
2007-12-04 13:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by j yanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any time you start lying about things like this its not going to go over well, and your most likely going to get caught, besides this is kind of disrespectful to your parents lying to them if you don't trust them enough to ask and try to work it out, how are they to ever going to trust you.
2007-12-04 14:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by benthr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like trouble!
2007-12-04 13:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ricardo W. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋