Well, I have and it was the one person I looked up to, the one person I saw as my father.( My Uncle) He betrayed me by making me stay with him not because he loved like his daughter, like I thought, but because he wanted the house my mother left me in Mexico. I found out one night When I heard him talking to one of my sisters (MY SISTER) telling her that as soon as he could he would go to Mexico and put that house under his name and then send me to foster care. I mean can you belive that? I didnt AT FIRST
2007-12-04 05:47:44 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I dont know what to think of him I mean I really fell for it all these years how sad my own uncle but you know what these things happen and Iv'e learned to deall with them!
2007-12-04 09:31:38 · update #1
do not let him do you look up onlineto sell it get a bank account you get all the monney and caan save for yourself for whatever you want and i would consult first with your best friend's parents about whaT IS HAPPENEING AND I HOPE I HELPS A LOT
2007-12-04 05:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by 1hayhay72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been betrayed by family - I know all about that. In my teens I was sent to a private boarding school with my brother who's 1 1/2 years older than me. I was bullied for most of the 5 years I was there, and he joined the bullies and helped them harass me, telling them unbelievably embarrassing things about my childhood (which they then used against me).
I'm now 44, and have hated him my entire adult life, and will hate him until the day he dies. Nobody can change that or say anything to make that hurt go away.
2007-12-04 05:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry, that is horrible to find out. It probably left you feeling like your life was a lie and you don't know your place in it anymore. Here's the thing. He made a selfish mistake. It has nothing to do with who you are, but more with his selfish motivation. You are the innocent victim of a greedy man. Put your pain back on him. Confront him with what you overheard and let him explain. Let him know how bad it hurt you using describing words such as betrayed, lonely, etc. and let him deal with those feelings. He might try to mull over it, but hopefully, he will be able to explain the situation. Sorry your going through this.
2007-12-04 05:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by kyforsberg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. I have been betrayed by my family, more than once with more than one family member and its sad because those are the people you're suppose to trust and look up to. But i guess that's how life is. All I can say is learn to take care of your business NOW. If you find out certain things about him SPEAK UP. Before it's too late.
2007-12-04 06:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, life is full of lies!
i'm married for nearly 2 years
my wife got to know another guy and has been together with the guy for some while b4 telling me, all this while she has been acting in front of me!!!
i cant accept this is happening to me right now!!! even though this has happened 2 weeks ago!
life sucks, u got to prepare urself like do some planning b4 exposing that uncle of urs.engage some legal aid or help from government assistance if u cant afford to hire a lawer
god bless u! and i wish u best of luck, strive on.... there may be someone out there who really care and love u!
2007-12-04 05:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by yennie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to contact a lawyer to see if he can be stopped. Do not let his betrayal shock you into silence. Take your sister with you if she will tell the lawyer what he said. Leave her out of it if she says she is not on your side. Be careful though because iobviously he felt safe saying this to your sister so she may be on his side for some reason. How did you inherit the house and not have to share it with your siblings? That is likely to be at the bottom of her reasoning.
2007-12-04 05:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by recallthis2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he your LEGAL guardian? Contact someone in authority or family members in Mexico if this jerk hasn't already done something with your mother's house. Alert them to what he plans. Talk to your counselor at school and get advice. Don't give up. Each of us is betrayed during our lifetimes, sometimes more than once, but we survive.
2007-12-04 05:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta watch out for your family, they are usually the first ones to betray you. You know that saying, keep your friends close, your enemies closer? There's a good reason for that. My uncle was pretty bad too, worse even. Hopefully you can talk to someone that can help you, a caseworker?
2007-12-04 05:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by ashleecarter2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally sucks when betrayed by family. Family are supposed to stick together and be there for each other, not take what they can. Just be careful and make sure you let others that are close to you aware of his plans. Some people may not like that you called him out, but you have to protect yourself.
2007-12-04 05:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by f1mudvayne29 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is sad but true. I have had many family members do terrible things and then I am called horrible names when I get upset about it ... like I brought it upon myself. People can be downright mean and nasty ... even family!! Please though, try not to let it get you down too much. Have you tried talking to him? Do your best if you still have it in you. Don't think that you are a bad person ... he's just messed up!
2007-12-04 05:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by MiMi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i believe it, because my sister took the home i was supposed to share after my mother's death...
she betrayed me, left me HOMELESS.
the insanity of it all was i was the one person who spent over a year taking care of my mother every day before she died... it's a good thing i did it out of love not greed....
some people are very greedy and self-serving, yes.
2007-12-04 05:57:14 · answer #11 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋