I know she likes me because everyone says she talks the world of me when I'm not around. Nothing has gone wrong or is going wrong in our relationship, but I still worry because I've never had a relationship work out as well as this one. It is almost to good to be true, but it is true. Ahhhh, I'm going insane. Please email your reply to krobertw@hotmail.com
2007-12-04 04:30:20 · 20 answers · asked by Kyle West 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop thinking about your relationship so much, it'll only drive you nuts and you may end up ruining what you have by worrying about it.
2007-12-04 04:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Freddy Benson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when people aren't used to being treated well they think it's too good to be true. The first thing you need to do is tell your girlfriend that you appreciate her and that if you act a little funny sometimes it's because your nervous when she's around and you get butterflies in your stomach, then I suggest making sure that you are treating her just as good as she is you. Trust takes time and when you've been hurt in the past it's easy to slip into those paranoid feelings, try your best to see you have someone who cares about you so much and that if you continue being this way you are setting yourself up for failure. Hopefully everything works out, best of luck!
2007-12-04 04:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by dpcarras2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very well, before each thing, do not even ever imagine about pursuing that lady. basically .. no. particularly somewhat, i imagine you want to spend a lot of time far out of your gf's sister, do not forget that she is in a courting, and that you haven't any danger at the same time with her. you've a daughter! you want to augment up slightly and imagine about the end results of your movements. Granted, being in contact in someone is a frustrating problem to break sometime. although the better you imagine about it, the better you should imagine about it, basically spend better time such as your gf, and do some thing new and exciting to get your concepts off her sister. also, evaluate the actual undeniable actuality that in case you probably did ever pursue her sister, she might want to be so harm, like unbelievably harm. this is basically incorrect mann. I propose, in case you probably did no longer have a daughter, it would want to nonetheless be incorrect, yet you just about made a dedication to her, that you may not damage. arise with your self and do not forget that you've a duty for your gf.
2016-10-25 10:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let insecurities come between you.
Its a good relationship, sit back and enjoy it.
Trust me, there aren't many perfect relatrionships, you are lucky to be in one, and have a girl who so obviosly loves you !!
If theres never been a reason to doubt her, don't do it, it will mentally crush you, and the more you think she might have done something, the more you'll believe it and convince yourself that she HAS done it, when really, she hasn't !
Hope this answers your question...its my last answer for this level =} ..the 2 points i get from this wil carry me right on through to level 3 !
Good lUCK..AND REMEMBER...ENJOY IT..
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2007-12-04 04:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude I totally understand. I over think/analyze everything too. You just need to relax and let it flow. If it doesn't work out then it doesn't work out and you just gotta accept that. But being worried all the time will make it not work out. So chill out and just enjoy the ride.
2007-12-04 04:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol dude calm down. If everything is going smooth just think positive about it. You have nothing to worry about. I know what your saying if you become attached and there is a slight chance of her breaking up with you but why would she? You seem rad. Just don't panic infront of her like this she might be turned off by it.
2007-12-04 04:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, be yourself, because if you want this to go any further, then you have to be yourself at some point, and so does she. Go out enjoy each others company, and stop making a mountain out of mole hill.
2007-12-04 04:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude just calm down. trust me man i was once where you were and i blew and i cant take that back now. i mean you cant be perfect and you can make it worse by being all about her
2007-12-04 05:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by invadedminds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you want it to not work so you can be right, you dont want to be caught off guard if something bad happens, so you keep thinking about a worst case scenario
2007-12-04 04:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by PJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let past failed relationships ruin a good one.
She deserves better from you.
2007-12-04 04:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by cherokee_jack 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋