2007-12-04 02:54:14 · 11 answers · asked by BorgPet6of10 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Good question: I found myself at the ripe old age of 34 pregnant without benefit of husband. I knew who the father was, and didn't want to get married and especially to him. He was fun boyfriend ,but too controlling and not my one true love. I didn't love him.
Against my better judgment, I married him, and spent the next 14 years trying to make the best of a terrible situation. By the time I left, I actually hated him, and felt disgusted with myself for settling. He mistreated my children, cheated on me, and lost several houses for us. He is not a nice man.
He is a sociopath.
As the me I am today, I hope I would have told him to mail the check to this address and stayed in the Navy and raised my sons alone. If I had, my sons would have had a much more pleasant home life, and I would have dated. I would never have given them a step-father, and been able to raise them my way.
It is the only thing in my life I regret. It is huge.
2007-12-04 03:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a really good question...although I cannot give the exact answer you're looking for, as any poor moral decisions I've made in the past I have learned from... which is what I assume you mean in the long run.
I guess, with my present maturity, if I was faced with a moral decision it really depends on the situation. There is no single way to tackle every issue... I really have to look at the decision to be made and then decide what plan of action to take in coming up with said decision (i.e. - if you're deciding whether or not to have an abortion, you would have to tackle that question in a much different manner than if you were deciding whether or not to go to church, or something like that). It really depends on how much this personal decision means to you. If it is something life-altering, then you have to give it a lot of thought, possibly write down the pros and cons of going through with this decision, write down other possible outcomes, etc...
It, however, it is something minor, that really is not going to affect you (which I doubt, since you're asking about 'moral' decisions), then it may not require as much action.
Hope this makes some sense!
2007-12-04 11:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was too proud to ask for help.
If it were to ever happen again I would put pride aside and get the help needed.
2007-12-04 11:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bangbangbangbang 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got married to my ex because of the wrong reason,
Her Lust is not a reason to me now.
I don't ever see being married again and age has helped me fine tune "is it lust"
2007-12-04 10:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would own up to my mistake and apologize immediately for it.
2007-12-04 11:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not make the same mistake twice
2007-12-04 11:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could not phase me today! I hate sin.
2007-12-04 11:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This time, I wouldn't get caught.
2007-12-04 11:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
think things over..
2007-12-04 10:57:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
run! don't think just run away.
2007-12-04 10:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by phrog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋