Please Christian please answer me on this one I really need to know?

Question

I am 20 and got married last month, me and my husban have been together from high school, we are ttc and we have no luck because I am diagnois with pcos. I no that u aren't suppose to question God so I'm asking u to help me out. In his word he said to be fruithful and multiply, so I am thinking that we as woman suppose to reproduce, do you think he don't want me to conceive because me having pcos isn't my fault its just something that causes your hormones to go wack, for some reason everyone around me is getting pregnant like teens who don't deserve it, unfit mothers, drug adicts, people who don't want kids, why do you think its happen to me, I am a strong beliver in God and I no that all things come threw him, but I am starting to think that it will never happen, that he can't make provision for me,that he don't hear my cry for help, I no that he wouldn't put more on me then I can't bare but why is it that he's trusting me so much. Why aren't he answering my Prays I pay my tithes and

offering, and only thing I mostly did wrong was commit adultry when I was young, I was having unprotected sex from since I was 17 and I was trying to make a baby from then, and the miracle still haven't happen. A baby is a blessing from God, so why isn't he blessing me, I know he rains on the just and the unjust, and don't tell me he's waitin till am ready because I am ready, many people out there aren't ready and they are having kids, it hurts me so badly when I watch a child on tv living in a child abuse home, I hate watchin the dicovery channel where people are having multiples why aren't I able to be conceive, what did I do wrong, why do I have to be diagnois with pcos, all I really want is a miracle from the Lord I promise him I'll dedict my baby back unto him, I'll grow the child up in a christian home

Thanks alot dr. alfred

Answer 1

Remember God places desires in your heart. So if you are longing for a baby God will either ease that desire or fulfill it. He would never taunt you with something he will not bless you with. He is a loving God and wants us to have the things that we truly desire. He did say multiply and be fruitful. Believe his word, every word. I mean truly with all your heart believe it and run to him with everything you have and kneel down and leave your troubles and concerns at the cross. I know it is hard. I have been ttc for 17 months and the only thing that is getting me through is my faith. But remember God has his timing for things so be patient. He knows what he is doing so trust in that. Also be sure to recognize and give thanks for all of the blessings that you do have daily. Sometimes we overlook and miss out on many blessings that he has offered us. You shouldn't question him and just put all your faith in him that he will fulfill your desire of motherhood. God answers all prayers. It may not be the answer we think we want but he knows best. I wouldn't want to argue with someone that knows all and truly knows what is best for me. Try to put your whole faith in him and see what happens. Best wishes and God bless you!!!!

Answer 2

I have PCOS as well and have three beautiful sons, all conceived naturally. But, that didn't happen without some serious work on my part. I had to lose quite a bit of weight, which brought my PCOS under control, before I was able to conceive. It took a year of trying with the second child and six months with the third. Don't give up, talk to your doctor about how weight loss can help you conceive, and then work at it with the strength and desire you have for a child. If you cannot conceive, consider adoption! There a tons of children that would love to be raised by loving and caring parents. I have a friend that wanted a child so bad and could not conceive. Two weeks after their adoption was final and the stresses of trying to conceive were over, she became pregnant. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, it will happen soon enough! God bless.

Answer 3

You are doubting God.
You say you are a strong believer but you are doubting God, you need to admit that.
And then don't worry, because everyone at some point does doubt God.
Read Job, especially chapters 38 and on, the first 37 chapters are Job talking with his friends about how bad his life is and wondering WHY?????
38 and on (like 3 chapters) is GOD talking to Job directly and giving him a bit of an attitude adjustment.
My favorite statement God makes, or better Question he askes Job is... "Where were you when I laid the foundations of the Earth?" Job has no answer to any of God's questions.
God continues, and says who provides food for the lion, who can count the clouds in wisdom,... Also, 'can you hook leviathan with a hook?' 'behold now behemoth, (explains behemoth) can you ...' and on and on.
The point is that God knows everything, God can do everything, and God is almighty.
A good lesson for everyone, I was actually just reading that this morning, about twenty minutes ago.

The point is, that God knows everything and is all powerful, so we should stop trusting ourselves, thinking that we know whats best, and we should start trusting God, soon he will bring things around for you.

And what you have, is not your fault.
God is NOT punishing you in any way.
He is preparing you for something.
I don't know what, but he does.

I suggest you stop stressing about it, stress is the most common thing that makes people not get pregnant.

There was a movie, a sports movie, and it was a christian movie, in it the coach and his wife have been trying for years but can't get pregnant, they finaly get tested and one of them is infirtile. They pray to God and give everything up to him.
They end up pregnant.
FACING THE GIANTS - is the movie title.
http://www.christiancinema.com/catalog/product_info.php?products_id=1621
http://www.pluggedinonline.com/movies/movies/a0002896.cfm
Just so you know what movie I'm talking about.

God knows what he is doing, and someday you will see it too, trust him.

Jessica - feel free to email

Answer 4

Don't lose faith, keep with GOd. Keep trusting, praying & get prayer support & claim on His promises for healing. Break any curses upon your life & those that pass down through the generation (check your family history, someone may have the condition).

Faith in God is one thing but on our part we must do all that is humanly possible to tackle the problem too.

I found this Australian site:
http://www.posaa.asn.au/

Do all the necessary diet thing, lifestyle change, get tips from the website forum & advice. See a doctor & seek expert advice.

Hope you will overcome these big hurdle. GOd Bless & peace be with you.

Answer 5

I don't know what pcos is. You have only been married one month. My husband and I was never blessed with kids and God made me content with that. I was never able to afford to find out why not, and I am glad of that to. We have been married 15 years and now it would be hard to have kids, because we have only had each other for these many years now. Give God time, and don't rush him. God will answer in his time. I know a couple who tried for years and then finally had kids.

Answer 6

I observed a guy run around the floor of a pool crammed with a non-Newtonian fluid hence God is actual, and likewise the soul is an invisible organ interior the human physique that's teleported to a minimum of one in all 2 parallel universes, the two heaven or hell as quickly as we die.

Answer 7

Tithes have nothing to do with it.
I think we all have done this at one time or another...trust God, and believe, but then we think we know better than Him what's good for us. We know we're ready, He thinks otherwise.
I don't think you'll understand this right away, but don't you think it's quite possible He has something much better for you, but that it must happen in His timing?
I do not know what these medical abbreviations mean, but I do know God knows what is best for each of us. Trusting Him and His will is what we are to be about.
We are not ever wise enough that we can advise God.

Answer 8

The one true prayer is "Thy WILL Be Done", Acceptance is the opposite of expectation. Expectation brings disappointment, where acceptance brings contentment.
Peace and Blessings.....

Answer 9

He has answered your prayers, you just didn't get the answer you wanted.

You mention all these others are getting prego, teens, worthless people, etc. So... what are those people?

2 Timothy 3:1-7
This know also, that in the LAST DAYS perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of YHWH; Having a form of reverence, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.

Okay... so we now know who they are. So why no child for you? And remember... G_D speaks in 3 when He really is trying to get your attention.

Matthew 24:19 And woe unto them that are with child, and to them that give suck in those days!

Mark 13:17 But woe to them that are with child, and to them that give suck in those days!

Luke 21:23 But woe unto them that are with child, and to them that give suck, in those days! for there shall be great distress in the land, and wrath upon this people.


So... if we are in the last days... and you are without child. Do you see why? Do you realize He is not punishing you, but assisting you?

His love is greater than most realize, for He already knows the path that we do not know. Trust Him... He holds the light to light our path.

Proverbs 4:18 But the path of the just is as the shining light, that shineth more and more unto the perfect day.

Isaiah 41:13 For I YHWH thy Elohim will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee.

Best tip... stop thinking society, stop thinking of matching the Jones's, stop buying, start stocking food, start preparing for the worse days you have ever seen. The knock is at the door... we are at the 12th hour. And I would say He married you two so you could assist each other in the coming times. Be as one... ONE!

Answer 10

never give up