Can pain and hurt ever be a motivator?

Answer 1

yes. it will get you to a point that your ether work to over come it or tonot do what caused it.

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Answer 2

MOTIVATOR TO THE STRONG, MONSTER TO THE WEAK

Soft, what a brain tasking question? I must commend your wits, it's quite challenging; which is why I've decided to answer it. These words are two sides of a coin, they are inseparable; in fact they are interwoven. In the context of love, pain could be suffering of the mind or unpleasant emotional experience, while hurt is mental distress or anguish. In a simple language, 'pain' is a product of 'hurt'; in other word, 'pain' is what we feel when we are hurt.

Moreover, these emotional monsters can make greater positive or negative influence on one's lovelife for a lifetime just as they can on all aspects of our lives. Because of the differences in human nature, while some people are strong-willed and courageous to get over any emoitonal distress or anguish, others are just too weak to cope with them. So, pain and hurt could motivate or demoralise someone depending on which emotional class they belong.

Thus, these monsters only suceed at making a strong and courageous mind to be STRONGER, WISER AND MORE COURAGEOUS when hurt in love thereby propelling them to have a blissful lovelife against all odds. In other words, they are equipped with all they need to know about relationship without being a victim of love. To this class of people, pain and hurt are a great motivator.

On the contrary, these monsters demoralise weak mind when hurt in love and bode them bad omen. Many people form this class have become victims of love at various levels in life. Many have lost their emotional stability, some their normal life while others have become mentally derailed. And that's why research has proved beyond reasonable doubts that the higher percentage of psychiatric hospital patients are victims of love (relationship or marriage); and most of them are from this class. To this category, these monsters aren't a motivator, but a bogey and bad omen.

What is more, that's why I've tried my best to let whoever cares to know understand that there's always a light at then end of the tunnel. Heartbreak when least expected isn't the end of love, in fact, it's a steppingstone to true love; if only the weaker minds would change their mind to be strong and resolve to having a blissful lovelife against all odds in life.

The power is our minds, we can be whatever we choose to be, it's all about the right mental attitude and actions to bring them to reality. I pray the Lord will help me to make my own little impact in this regards in our generation, because, it's my vision.

Answer 3

Pain...as in pain from a break-up? Sure. I think that anytime someone goes through some kind of crisis or traumatic event like a break-up, it can make you a stronger person and motivate you to better things if you let it. Pain can also cause the reverse effect of making someone bitter and unmotivated. I feel that we all have choices in our lives to wallow in sadness or to use that experience to better our lives.

Answer 4

I find it motivates me in labour, Pain is the beginning of the end then and you know you cant wait to hold ur sweet lil bundle in ur arms, awww how could that pain not motivate?
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Answer 5

Yeah painful motivator... But hard to get motivation out of it we need to get lot of selfcontrol to forget that pain and hurt then only we can get motivation...

Answer 6

Of course. Pain of hunger will motivate you to not starve, for example.

Answer 7

Sure it can, but it's not a *good* motivator. As with most negative-based motivations, it tends to draw negative results.

Answer 8

Both are motivator to further reaction, but both in different way; just how you take it.

Answer 9

If it causes you to change your behavior, then of course it can.

Sometimes it's not the most effective motivator, though.

Answer 10

It can, there are many ways it can take someone good and bad.