I've liked this girl for about six months. She broke up with her boyfriend about 2 weeks ago. Should I ask her or wait. I don't want to seem like I am trying to ask her on the rebound, but I am scared that if I don't someone else will. Should I ask her, and if so, what do I say/do?
2007-11-29 23:34:45 · 14 answers · asked by Do or do not, there is no try 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She dated her previous boyfriend for about three weeks and then he broke up with her.
2007-11-29 23:50:36 · update #1
We hav been friends for like two years, and she claims I am one of her best guy friends.
2007-11-29 23:51:18 · update #2
you should tell her your feelings and leave that upto her what she would like to do. . .. waiting would not be good, because then she may get really serious without someone else and you should let her know how you feel, even if she decides not to be with you right now the possibility might be there when time moves on a little bit. .. .. . . I would at least tell her how you feel, tell her there is no pressure on her, but you would hate to see her with someone else without telling her how you feel, and list the reasons why and what she does to make you feel this way . .. . Good luck!
2007-11-29 23:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♣Kellina♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her your sorry things didnt work out and say youll be there if she needs anything and give her your number. That will put you seriously in her good books and then in a day or two ask her out for coffee so she can talk if you both enjoy yourselves suggest doing it again take her home on the way home tell her how you feel.
2007-11-30 07:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by ask the aliens! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come straight out and say to her "I know this might be a bit soon but would you like to go out with me"
If you dont someone else might
2007-11-30 07:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by J Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will think you are a freak for asking her out so early, let her grieve over her old boyfriend for two years.
2007-11-30 07:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long she was with that previous boyfriend.
I'd say start talking to her, but dont get right into it.
By talking to her, you'd see how she looks at you, and whether or not she likes you the same way.
Just keep talking to her, everything takes time!
2007-11-30 07:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if she dated ur ex bf for like a couple weekes then wait alteast a week to ask her out
and is they were together for a couple months then you should wait alteast a month to ask her out
good luck i hope she says yea
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majdal
2007-11-30 07:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Majdal♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks may be a bit soon....but maybe not.
try spending more intellectual time with her to get to know her more. try coffee or lunch. do this maybe a couple times a week then ask her out out on a date.
hope it works :)
2007-11-30 07:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Rach 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you don't do something now you might regret it. I would at least start talking to her and feel her out, and see if you think she is ready for another relationship or not.
KW
Good Luck!
2007-11-30 07:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by KWichelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask her just yet, wait a while. Try to get on her good side. Don't rush it, if your really digging her then it will happen.
2007-11-30 07:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long was she with the guy? was it serious? you could always ask her out for a coffee or something first. just to tread the water. hope you get a result
2007-11-30 07:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋