i have had a guy in a long ditance relationship for 4 months now. he comes down to visit me and we last met 2 weeks abck. at the beginning he was all eager and used to keep in touch alot nowadays though he has laxed in communicating and can stay for 3 days without keeping in touch. though he always gets bak to me when i keep in touch and he does answer all my texts. what could be teh reason for this sudden attitude?
2007-11-29 22:26:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he's busy with his job, and now he's feeling confident enough he doesn't have to answer to you right away because he know's you will wait for him.remember he has his own life to live also.
2007-11-29 22:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lond distance relationships are hard on both people but they can work.My wife and i started off like that she lived in ny and i in nm we talked a lot and then for a while i got so caught up with work and stuff that iwas nt keeping close touch with her due to the fact that life got hectic well that was a while back and now we are bith living in nm and doing great.Sorry i rambled i love rambling about her.My point is this...perhaps he has gotten really busy and just has alot going on right now.If u have doubt then ask him jusr call him and say "was just wonderin u seem to be pretty busy these days anything i can do to help" if he says he hasnt been busy then its a pretty clear sign hes lost interest but let him explain his reason first b4 u drop him
2007-11-30 06:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by wolfettes lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have had a panic moment about commitment, or he may feel suffocated. Or he may be ill or really busy, who knows? But usually with men it is because they don't have the coping skills we women possess and they start feeling like they need to get out of the situation without bothering to explain why, men are very guarded about their feelings and can't always put into words what they want to say.
2007-11-30 06:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Seaside Sweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably tied up with some other assignments and because of which he is busy. From what i understand he wants to keep the relationship alive n kicking but he is facing other pressures which is diluting his enthusiasm. He is a victim of time n circumstances though he appears to be normal and unintentional.
2007-11-30 06:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by lionoftheorient 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance is always difficult,as relationships are mainly for people wishing to be together.
2007-11-30 06:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has had his fill of you and is looking for someone closer to home you are alright in an emergency while he is in the area you live in ~~
2007-11-30 06:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a while we get a little complacent and maybe just getting
comfortable with your relationship and the distance can be a problem
2007-11-30 06:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance doesn't work. Stop kidding yourself. I don't care how many texts you sent either.
2007-11-30 06:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by Little Foot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no reason he is just becoming more relaxed with the relationship
2007-11-30 06:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mickeytopdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first reason is you let him have it .
The second reason ..you didnt let him have it.
2007-11-30 06:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋