My daughter started school in september this yr but she is really taking along till so settle in she wont talk to n e one not even the teacher i find it really hard when the children want to talk to he in the playground but she isnt willing to do the same its really embrassing when the parents look at me. i really cant understand how she can be like it she went to playgroup she has a brother and sister and also my mum is a childminder so she has always been around other children. at home she is a total different child she dont stop talking. has anyone else experienced this with their child/ren and how long did it last i just dont no what else to do to help her get out of this
2007-11-29 20:23:50 · 7 answers · asked by nat 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
i always ask her if she is ok but she dont all the time wants to talk to me and she just makes a noise
2007-11-29 20:33:22 · update #1
iv been in the school to see how she is getting on they just say that she is very quite she wont take part in anything when it comes to pe she will just stand there with her fingers in her mouth. i cant work it out its quite upseting aswell because when i see her she is always on her own. i keep saying to her go and join in with the other children but its like she is scared of something
2007-11-29 20:44:02 · update #2
she is one of the young not sure about the youngest most of them are just turning 5 she isnt even 4 and a half yet. when it comes to work she is up with the children its just her social skills
2007-11-29 21:15:53 · update #3
iv done all that already she doesnt get invited to n e parties nobody seems to really pay her much attention anymore i guess they are fed up with talking to her and getting no response so if she dont get invited to n e parties nobody will want to come to her party. Her birthday isnt till june and we was going to do a bouncy castle party with an entertainer
2007-11-30 01:27:49 · update #4
look at the mums for a friendly face and ask if her daughter could come to your house for tea, or take them to a children's indoor play area, meeting some of the children inside school will help, if her birthday is near a little party would be great
2007-11-30 01:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by Diamond 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably just a "phase" which some children go through, unless she's being bullied or picked on. Something like that happened with our youngest, she was fine but she'd taken teacher's instruction to keep quiet too literally - then when she came home she talked nineteen to the dozen! All wore off after a month or so . . . Perhaps my fault, because I'd said she must listen to Miss, and for once she paid attention to what Dad said!
2007-11-30 04:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by champer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're letting yourself be embarrassed by a little child? And embarrassed by other parents?
Who is the child here?
Leave her alone. She'll figure it out herself, it's still a new thing for her. You could always mention this to some of the other parents, they too might have some ideas about what to do about her. But the more you push this notion that it is a serious problem, the worse you will make it. Let it be. It will be fine once she decides to break through whatever it is that she finds hard to deal with.
2007-11-30 04:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she sounds just like me when I was her age, I didn't even speak to my cousins I was so shy! I eventually started coming out of my shell when I was about 9, seems a long time I know! I'm sure she'll be fine just keep asking her if she's ok and if she needs to talk about anything, I was so shy at school, I just couldn't snap out of it it was really hard & even now it creeps back & I'm 27! I hope she comes out of it asap coz it's really hard xx
2007-11-30 04:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by rock_chick28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she the youngest in the class? It could just be she is not ready for school. pull her out and try next year. If not then talk to the school on how they are helping her
2007-11-30 05:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to ask her what is up?
Did something happen what she first got there?
Is she scared of going or is she shy?
Has she been bullied?
Have you spoken to the school?
Sorry lots of questions
Lots of things to think about
2007-11-30 04:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by Tim B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello i'm italian...kiss
2007-11-30 04:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋