This is so frustrating. I don't mean to sound shallow or anything, but I've noticed that whenever I am attracted to a guy....particularly one that is handsome and has a personality, he always ends up just wanting sex from me. But whenever I DON'T like a guy, he's always the first one blowing up my phone and trying to be with me. Why is this? Is it true that you are who you attract? Am I just aiming to high? Am I aiming for guys that are simply out of my league and only when hell freezes over will I ever be with them? I really would like to know. I think I am a nice person, and I think I am pretty decent looking, but pretty boys treat me like all I am worth is a quick bang in the back seat. Do I give it up to them too easily? I don't know.....it seems like if I give it away to an ugly guy fairly easily, it doesn't matter, he will still call me and want to be with me, but with a pretty boy, the only time he will call me again is when he wants to screw me. What am I doing wrong?
2007-11-29 19:31:51 · 7 answers · asked by Miss K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say you're maybe a little confused. Maybe the guys you think are attractive only seem that way to you because they are very self-confident. On the other hand the guys you don't like that keep calling you, you only find unattractive because they are very annoying. My advice to you is to take it easy for a while and see what life brings you. Maybe you should try for a guy that doesn't fall into either of these categories.
2007-11-29 19:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
More attractive boys tend to feel more of a sense of entitlement for girls. Unless they're looking for a relationship, they don't really care about one cute girl b/c they feel like they can have lots of cute girls. Only when they're like, "Hey, I want a relationship," will whatever girl they happen to like the best for w/e reason become like their girlfriend. Its all a matter of timing. A 34 years will want to 'settle down' before a 24 year old.
Now, ugly guys will hold on to any girl they can because they feel lucky they're getting any attention at all.
2007-11-30 03:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pretty boys are full of themselves because they have felt pretty their whole life and had every girl drooling over them.
Average guys want to keep you because they were treated like **** their whole life and made to feel worthless and they sure as hell don't want to let go of someone pretty because who knows when they will meet one again?
I'm good looking but I am not shallow and I see what the "pretty" boys do and it disgusts me.
I would never act like that, I have morals.
Just keep trying you'll find someone you like that doesn't **** you over.
2007-11-30 03:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by AskThomas 2 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Honestly sweet and dont take this the wrong way but I think its because they think your easy and only intend to use for you for sex because you'll give it.
As for the ones who want to be with you which you call ugly is because they take you seriously thats why and honestly if you want to be taken seriously instead of just for sex then take yourself seriously that way you wont be known as a chick whos all about sex and thats it because trust me there will come a time when you fall for someone and you want to be taken seriously and theyre just gonna wanna screw you and thats it.
I suggest you change your perspective on yourself because thats the only way you wont be used for just sex.Sorry to sound blunt but its the truth sad to say and right now to guys your just sex on legs and thats it, if you want to be taken seriously I suggest you dont be picky with guys otherwise no one would want to be with you at all.
2007-11-30 04:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let the ugly guys give u a chance.
cos looks arent the only thing that matter.
mmm, try to find a guy or let them find u.
there will be someone for you there.
2007-11-30 03:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you are 'doing wrong' is holding on to very low/bad self regard. I'd look into self esteem training and get up out of the hole you are in.......
2007-11-30 03:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by jimrich 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ask the hot girls and see what they say...i bet it's exactly the same thing as the hot guys
2007-12-01 20:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋