Finding a genuinally good "girl" for a guy to be with? or
Fidning a genuinally good "guy" for a girl to be with?
2007-11-29 19:29:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm female so my answer may be sexist, but I think it's harder for a girl to find a good guy. If I was a guy I would probably feel the opposite.
2007-11-29 20:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by checkthisout! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the term"genuinely good", is a concept, not an actual variable, its really hard to answer this question. I think it's honestly equally as hard, because there are very few of each. Now it's cool to be a slutty girl with no personality, and it's even cooler to be a duchebag guy that has no respect for anyone around you. I think, in all honesty, it's not about guys or girls, finding a genuine and decent PERSON is difficult, no matter what arena your in.
2007-11-30 03:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Saoirse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's alot harder for the girls to find a decent guy anymore....and i blame it entirely on the lack of a strong male presence in the home anymore.....there just aren't very many good male role models in the home anymore, even when there is a man there.....i really fear that i come from the last generation who had fathers who got it and taught us to treat women with respect and dignity first, get to know them, and then whatever happens after that, no matter how freaky kinky and wild , is just the bonus because you built that bond and trust and got to be friends first.....all the young bucks coming up now see is worthless guys who don't want to work, have no concept of PARTNERSHIP, and would rather sit around and play video games all day......not all guys are like that to be sure.....i don't want to generalize, but judging from the questions i see here from the girls day after day and the young guys i come in contact with day to day.....what i see and read here just insults me as a man to think this is what it has become to be a 'man'.....
not that there aren't worthless women out there too, because i see them alot as well and it's hard for us guys to find a good one anymore these days too, but there are much much less of them then guys these days
2007-11-30 03:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by #1 bossman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without exception: Finding a "good girl" is rarer---because even the "good girls", under the surface--have some naughty naughty secrets they dare not let out; some they won't even tell their best friends of.......
.....you can spot a naughty "good" girl miles away; they're the loudmouthed male bashers, decrying "Men are dogs" mantras.
2007-11-30 03:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well both are very hard to find...its just depends on the person lookin...to them they may be gernerally a nice person and good to be around but to others they may not be...its all based on ur own opinions thoughts and feelings about the person...if they are genuine to the u then thats all that matters rite?
2007-11-30 03:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a genuinely good guy
2007-11-30 03:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50/50 really but are there genuinally bad boy/gilrs to be with?
2007-11-30 03:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finding a genuine good boy :(
i always get hurt by them...
2007-11-30 03:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by tawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with rebecca. they all suck. all the girls i been with always screw me (not in the pleasurable way, either).
2007-11-30 03:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by Oscar H. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say guy. but at the same time, its true..everybody does kind of suck.
2007-11-30 03:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by Nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋