pretend not to be looking at her by pretending to look at the ceiling or scratch my head in deep thought or quickly look back around again. I'm wondering if I'm expected to say hi or something or smile every time but I really want to avoid her because I sit next to her but I don't find her that attractive she's not my type but fine to talk to. Am I being rude or would she think that I'm deliberately staring at her when I'm not really, I'm just a curious sort of guy. What should I do I don't have a clue.
2007-11-29 19:11:31 · 12 answers · asked by Sporadic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get some dark glasses
2007-11-29 19:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't expected to say hi, I think. It's only if you want to - some people are more social/outgoing than others. You don't have to smile everytime you see her, either, unless you feel like smiling. It's better to just be yourself and be honest with your emotions (in a tactful, reserved way, of course - you are in public). I would just focus on being her friend, if anything, since that might be a possibly good friendship for you. If you really can't stand her, then try sitting with someone new.
Just be yourself! Be comfortable. This is the best thing you can possibly do.
2007-11-30 03:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by Moemi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's kind of rude for you to do that, I mean she'll just get your signals all mixed up, if that is what you're worried about. Just acknowledge her presence, and treat her the way you'll treat your other classmates you have no particular interest into. If you happen to be looking in her direction when she enters the room, nod to her, then continue to look in the same direction. That way, she won't think you're looking at her, if that is not what you want her to think. I do that every time with guys...=_=
2007-11-30 03:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by ennaor_12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i may be wrong...
but maybe you should stop worrying about her having a crush on you, she probably doesnt have a crush on you just like how you dont have a crush on her, even though YOU are always staring at her.
maybe the reason you always find yourself staring at her is because your so caught up in thinking that she likes you that you keep looking because you want to know if she does or not.
just dont think about how she may or may not feel about you, and i think you'll find yourself staring in her direction less.
i dont know if that makes sense to anyone reading this, but i hope it helps.
2007-11-30 03:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by lana62727 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not rude,its just happen that you were looking in her direction but not looking at her....
Be friendly and have a conversation with her....tell her the truth because she might think that you liked her but his not your type........
So if she'll know the truth, it would be clear to her and won't have such thoughts..... :-)
2007-11-30 03:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just greet her the way you would greet any friend! Make polite conversation, no harm at all: in fact, that way you get out of your present dilemma! And, a quiet, not-too-active friendship, is really good for you, too!
2007-11-30 03:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm maybe you should stop looking at the direction she comes in, lol, she is not your type, but she is cool to talk to, i dont know maybe deep down you have somewhat kind of feeling for her but dont wanna accept it, lol, juss be nice to her, act around her as you act around everyone else, then maybe she wont be thinking you like her like her, lol, juss dont sweat over it k. best of luck
2007-11-30 03:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by sweetness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...No, you're not being rude. Just keep on ignoring her. Try not to look at her so much so she won't think you like her or something.
2007-11-30 03:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur just curious hus coming thru the door.
well, i think u have SOME feeling for her but you just cant accept it or you dont understand it..
YET
just act normal, or something, dont worry about it lol
2007-11-30 03:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a gross face when u look at her so she doesn't think u like her.
2007-11-30 03:20:45 · answer #10 · answered by Cheezy Fiesta♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋