I am in so much pain right now. Alot of bad things happened to me i dont want to go into it but i feel horrible. I dont know why if the people i loved really loved me why they wouldn't let me go! I am in so much pain i dont care anymore why cant they love me enough to just let me go with dignity. I cant be here anymore i m just too unhappy to stay.
2007-11-29 19:05:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Stop. Take a deep breath. Pain will pass. If you are talking about suicide, don't do it. Tomorrow talk with a trusted teacher or counselor. It doesn't seem like it now, but things change and life won't always be like this. Get some help. You can feel better.
2007-11-29 19:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Committing suicide is not leaving with dignity!!! It's leaving the easy way out. I know that life can suck big time at times. I have been dealing with depression since I was nine years old and I'm 52. I have also been dealing with several medical issues and a learning disability and now I've been diagnosed with breast cancer. Should I just throw in the towel because it would be easier than going through chemo or radiation therapy??? GET the help that you need!!! The pain won't last forever and there is so much life ahead of you. You have to want to get better for it to happen. You have to put work into it. Believe me I know how hard that is, I've tried to commit suicide twice both times after traumatic events in my life. If I had I wouldn't now have my three beautiful daughters and the partners that I've had. Don't give up it is possible to get better.
2007-11-30 03:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kathryn R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To address your problems tonight, consider choosing one of the following:
Call a hotline
write in a notebook/journal
Consider if you are physically "safe" where you are, if not call 911.
In the morning, call or walk into your school counselor's office. Request a confidential time with your counselor. Part of your visit will be to make a plan of how to address your problems, and where and how to do that.
Relationships can be stressful. Hormones in a teen can make things seem bigger, and more urgent than the way others see them.
Physical protection from danger is a legal issue for parents to provide for their kids until age 18. That doesn't mean it's all fun. It does mean your parents have a legal and moral obligation on your behalf.
Some decisions we make have permanent, irreversible consequences. Some decisions made and acted on can have lifelong detrimental consequences. Consider gaining counsel before making such a decision, that you may regret for the rest of your life.
2007-11-30 03:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by Hope 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you're the religious type but if you are you need to pray for them to help them really understand what you are going through. The problem here is that they love you so much that they're not only afraid for you but, for themselves. They're probably not even aware of it. I'm sure that there's all kinds of thoughts going through their heads right now and one of them, for sure, is major guilt. Not because it's their fault you're sick but, because they can't picture themselves living with the guilt of what they consider giving up on you. Believe me I see it everyday in my line of work. If you don't believe in prayer then take time out to explain to them, perhaps as a group, what you are feeling and that you are at peace with your decision to not continue the fight. Also, there may be bereavement counsers in your area that could be of great assistance to them now. Not just necessarily later. Good luck and GOD bless.
2007-11-30 03:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by antoinette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to comment on without at least some more details. let you go from where? leave home? how old are you? do you mean leave some kind of facility that you feel ready to leave but your family won't sign release papers?
2007-11-30 03:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋