too fat too skinny?

Question

iv been refered to as both.. both playfully and seriously by family and friends :(

1 being thin as hell and needing serious help
10 being OBESE and needing serious help
http://i194.photobucket.com/albums/z187/natnatbrightside/MyPicture-5.jpg
http://i194.photobucket.com/albums/z187/natnatbrightside/MyPicture-3-1.jpg
http://i194.photobucket.com/albums/z187/natnatbrightside/MyPicture-6.jpg

to the idiots...
i am a hardcore softball player
and trackrunner
so i do have muscle
i pitch and play center=ARm strength
running=legmuscel
so yeah
w.e you guys say

http://i194.photobucket.com/albums/z187/natnatbrightside/MyPicture-1-3.jpg

Answer 1

dfeinatly not too fat whoever said that is crazy i think you look great but only you can know. Go to a doctor and find out what you ideal weight should be. thats your best choice

Answer 2

lol I've been reading the awnsers to these so ima put my input.. the pictures SUCK we can't tell. First of all your pose, is showing your back, and by leaning in your stretching out your back it sort of pulling the fat to your sides (try bringing ur elbows togeather and see if your back doesn't stretch the fat) secondly, your showing the back of your arm which is the thinnest possible photographed area of the arm. You also have very low quality cam and one of the pictures is just simply to dark to see the other too small. Your probably not fat, but we can't tell if your too skinny or if you have muscle tone from the pose of the shot, the quality of the pics. Anyone can pose in pictures too look skinny or buff or any of those, unlessit's a front full length shot and ur not turning in ne directions we really can't tell, not to mention you DON't show your hip area which is the most common area of fat build up for women, we can't even see your stomach.

Answer 3

You are neither. You look healthy and pretty. If a guy ever jokes to a girl that she is fat, as long as the guy isn't an absolute jerk, it means that she is definitely not fat. Most guys would not say that if the girl was really fat, at least not most guys that I know. I am sure that they are only kidding. And you don't look too skinny in the pics. The people that said that to you were probably fat people, or else anorexic themselves. Don't worry.

Answer 4

OMG! Whoever said that you were obese is BLIND! You have an absolutely perfect shape! You look thin and healthy but not anirexically gross. Trust me! I've struggled with other peoples opinions my whole life and I was always told I was "big boned" or too thin.... just love yourself! If you're comfortable then you're perfect just the way you are! Don't take other's opinions (family or friend's) seriously. Either they are jealous and want to belittle you or they have a problem and need help. Have confidence you're BEAUTIFUL!

Answer 5

Definitely not too fat that's ridiculous. You don't even look overweight whatsoever. You definitely don't need to be trying to lose weight. If you were going for model you're probably the right size. I consider you slim. At the end of the day, it matters what you think when you see yourself in the mirror, not the junk other people are feeding you.

Answer 6

Anyone that would call you fat needs help. The girl in the pics is toooooo skinny. You should not be able to count someones ribs from their back sweety. You should seek some help now before it gets much worse. Eating disorders can cause serious health problems including heart attack and heart failure!

Answer 7

If I were you, I would not post pictures of myself on the Net....is too dangerous these days.
As for your question, first of all, since when did hell become something that could be called either skinny or fat?
And second, since when does it matter what other people think of you?
And third, God looks on the heart, not the outside of a person, and His opinion is the ONLY one that counts for anything.

Answer 8

You are beautiful just the way you are! Don't let anyone mess up the way you feel about yourself. I know first hand what it's like...right now I am going through a lot just trying to recover from 5 years of having an eating disorder. It's no fun...you are gorgeous, sweety

Answer 9

You could try a BMI calculator to determine if you are at a healthy weight for your height, although there are many factors that influence your body mass index. For an accurate result as to whether or not you are too skinny or overweight, you should make an appointment with your doctor. As for the pics, I would say 4-5

Answer 10

Haha I am too skinny too. I have had three kids no stretch marks but weight 105 and am in a size 1 and cannot gain weight to save my life . Just deal with it and have confidence. that is what men are attracted to anyway if they are a decent guy and that is what most women want to attract .