The thing is I work with him and he gives me attention back and I can tell that he likes me too but I really don't want this to escalade any further.
I feel very guilty, but with each passing day I find myself more and more attracted to him.
aside from finding a new job, what else can I do ??
2007-11-29 15:06:18 · 13 answers · asked by Mariana 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I would cut this off asap honey. You wouldn't place your hand on a stove and keep it there would you? If he is giving you attention "back" that means you are giving HIM attention. This will not result in nice karma for you. How would you feel if you were his wife?
2007-11-29 15:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by An Independent 6 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Not much. Just try to avoid him. If you don't, you're setting yourself (and undoubtedly his poor wife) up for heartbreak.
You can't help how you feel and it's obvious the slimebag is egging you on.
Try to keep this in mind: if he's slimy enough to be willing to cheat on his wife, what makes you think he wouldn't do the same to you?
2007-11-29 15:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by Quaoar Rocks! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a MARRIED man which means he has a wife at home and maybe a couple of kids,doesn,t that mean anything to you ? You must be desperate if you have to steal someone else,s husband.Thats Low.
2007-11-29 15:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him that you cannot have contact with him anymore, if this is possible. You are going to get hurt and hurt his family if you get involved. Also, like the person said above, pray to resist the temptation.
2007-11-29 15:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope you're not expecting sympathy. You won't get any from me. Don't be a homewrecker. Grow up, walk away and find your own man.
2007-11-29 15:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for the strength to resist the temptation.
2007-11-29 15:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Ask him to get a divorce and then he won't be a married man.
2007-11-29 15:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by atheist godfather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start asking him how his wife is doing. Talk about his wife more. Make friends with his wife.
2007-11-29 15:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by curious_inquisitor 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up. Try to tone down your flirting, and think about the marriage/family you would be assisting him in hurting.
2007-11-29 15:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by Petrushka's Ghost 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him know you arent that type if it contunis let him know you will let his wife know you ever play with fire in the end you get burned from him and will be talked about i dont mean no harm but it.s a fact . my honest opion?
2007-11-29 15:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋