Someone today explained to me how guys come to be interested in girls. So, listen up. This made a lot of sense for me.
He said: First, you have to get noticed by the guy. You have to get on his radar. (you've got this already) If you become a brighter 'blip' on his radar (by being friendly, flirting, etc), a light bulb will eventually go off in his head that he likes you. It's just a matter of time.
So, keep doing what you're doing. He said once a girl's made an impression and has become a 'blip,' it's really hard to get her off the radar. So, don't feel like you have to keep making contact with him all the time. He'll keep you on the brain!
Also, this guy said that when a guy pursues a girl (that is, asks her out, asks for her number, etc), he feels really good when he succeeds. He REALLY likes her then. If an equally attractive girl asked for his number, he might feel flattered, but he's going to be more excited about the girl he pursued.
So, I think you're on the radar. I think now the key is to hang back a bit and let him pursue you.
2007-11-29 13:43:46
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answered by Anonymous
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Hmm, well, ince you don't plan on telling him until you're positively sure that he does like you, I would wait a bit more. I don't know, try a friend asking him if he has a crush and stuff, and if he's smart, then take that as an excuse and have him as a tutor. Personally, I think he likes you, but I'm not always right. He could be teasing you because he's very comfortable with you, but yet again he could really like you. Good luck.
2007-11-29 21:48:48
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answered by Laura M 2
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he likes you. it might be as a good friend or something more, but i cant tell over the internet. personally, i think you should flirt with him as then he will probably flirt back. he might not like you now, but he may grow too. i think that you should ask him out in a little while after you grow closer. but never, NEVER ask someone out if you just meet/haven't ever talked. (the former applies to high schoolers and under, adults can get to know each other on first dates when not previously given the chance.) not only is it creepy when a stranger asks you out, you cant judge them on what matters-personality-since you dont know them. i wish you the best of luck as it sounds like you two have a good chance! let everyone know how it turns out!
2007-11-29 21:46:23
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answered by call me $tar for short 2
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Guys are so weird when it come to whether they like you or not. I think he sees something in you that he like or he wouldn't be given you the time of day. I think you so give it sometime and maybe something will come out of it. Just be his friend for now and the truth will come out sooner than later.
2007-11-29 21:49:31
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answered by KENYATTA E 1
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Most likely yes, but dont get cocky. He might just be teasing you cuz he is a guy, and that is a guy thing to do with GIRLS. But does he act this way with other girls? if he does then it means nothing. if he acts like hat to only you, then he must like you. You can just ask him, and if he says no, then be like "oh, i was just wondering..."
2007-11-29 21:45:05
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answered by achistayfly 4
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He probably does. But it depends if he's this big of a flirt with other girls. If he has a history of loooooots of girls, you better watch out!
2007-11-29 21:39:59
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answered by Alan S 1
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I'd say yes! Unless he does that type of flirting with everyone.
2007-11-29 21:40:10
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answered by Lace 1
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seems like it lol i know hwo that goes, its kinda like me nad my bf right now good luck with it, ask his friends or have your friends ask him!
2007-11-29 21:44:41
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answered by Angelique 1
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I think he likes you!
-HeartBrokenForever (Diane N)
2007-11-29 21:40:27
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answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7
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that's so cute and intimate. but he could have realised that you're attracted to him, so he's playing.
2007-11-29 21:39:38
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answered by Anonymous
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