one of my guy friends as a joke is getting underwear for me for xmas my Bf found out and is furious when i told him it was a joke he said that he was really upset and didn't want to talk...im kinda upset cuz i tohught he trusted me more....what should i do.....
2007-11-29 13:34:14 · 7 answers · asked by Know u feel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont let other guys buy you underwear? of course he will be mad would you be sweet if a chick brought your guy underwear for xmas???????????
2007-11-29 13:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have to not trust you for that news to be upsetting and come as a shock. There's an implied intimacy that comes with a gift of that nature...it would be akin to a girl acquaintance of your boyfriend giving him some sort of male g-string. Would that be well-received by you? You would have been better served not accepting a gift like that (even as a joke) while you're in a relationship.
2007-11-29 21:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't upset your boyfriend even more by being out-of-line and throwing the "you don't trust me " garbage at him.
You have NO right to be upset with your boyfriend. you should throw away the underwear, apologize to your boyfriend, and tell your friend that it was an inappropriate "joke", and that you are in a committed relationship
stop being so selfish - take 2 seconds to understand how your boyfriend feels.
2007-11-29 21:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u kno its just a joke ur bf should understand that trust me i kno how he feels my ex was the same way but he still trusted me just not them so kno its not u hes mad at its ur friend ! gurlie everythings ok!
2007-11-30 15:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by cheer babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your friend to back off.
He's got no right to do that without your permission, and if you had any consideration for your boyfriend you would never give that permission without talking to him first.
2007-11-29 21:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he acts like a baby dump him if he is too serious about little things like that then he won't be fun to live with if y'all ever got married.but do it after the holidays so you can get presents out of him
:P
2007-11-29 21:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by tazzy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Accept the gift and low key it to you BF.
2007-11-29 21:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by Bob G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋