Im 20 & been dating a 28 year old for a year. He works a tough schedule from 3-11 with wed thurs fri off. He could work normal hours but he works this because it is conveniant for him. That being said, I always make sure he is my number one priority on our 3 days together because i do love him so much and want to be with him. He also is usually pretty good about seeing me his days off ,i know he loves me very much and always trys to plan nice things together to do, But even at his age he still likes to have his freedom and go out with the guys and not be told what to do. They'll go to sports bars and i get upset sometimes beacuse we only have a few days, & if my friends want to go out on a weekend to a bar he gets mad if i went without him, he said its different for a girl to go out on a weekend without her boyfriend. He has a double standard and it upsets me. I think he should be more understanding being i only see him 3 days a week which is hard and I always put him first.
2007-11-29 13:28:39 · 4 answers · asked by *MLove* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I kinda have a similar problem....it's not fair for him to be "allowed" and for you not to, if he really does love you and care for you, he should trust you, you can't build a relationship that is not based on trust, it just doesn't work. If he wants to go out with his friends without you, then do the same, have a talk with him...
2007-11-29 13:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by CK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while he supplies up on you, or perhaps tells you that he will call you and would not, then you definately can merely forget approximately approximately him. you're basically making your self disillusioned from his ordinary. on account that he would not even prefer to take heed to why you observed as, then merely drop him. on account that he's a pothead, then merely flow away him along with his pot. deliver an digital mail, asserting which you're sorry, yet you prefer some generally occurring communications from a boyfriend, and you're actually not getting it from him. This on my own is reason to break up. supply the warning and then do not call him from now on. flow on the date, and don't hassle. You tried many circumstances to touch him.
2016-11-13 01:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by fones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you and taking advantage of you..... and from what it sounds like with the double standard, he's also controlling you.
He's 8 years older, but you sound like you are the one who is FAR more mature.
Seriously - you can do so much better, why waste more of your life with this loser ?
2007-11-29 13:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to get rid of this insensitive guy.
2007-11-29 13:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bob 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋