twice. Today was the 1st time I saw it. She has been in and out of counseling with no apparent improvement. The main problem is that our mental health insurance coverage has a $2000 deductible and we can't afford weekly $75 therapist visits. We are trying to raise 6 people on 1 $37,000 income. Does anyone know of some help that would be less expensive?
2007-11-29 13:17:37 · 15 answers · asked by Insurancepro 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
mental health association- national associational of mentally ill (NAMI)-local college if they teach psych (all these can give you FREE referral or CHEAP referrals)- contact the state some state have special insurance just for children no matter how much the parents make (Department of Children and Family)- then there is medicaid Check around there are places available
The best of luck with your daughter and I hope some of these referrals work
2007-12-01 06:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by thebigz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to cut myself aswell, I am also recovering from depression a place that really helped me was here online http://dailystrength.org/. Everyone is supportive and going through the same thing. Also are there any groups in your home town where people can come together can discuss their feelings?? That really helped me alot. I m so sorry that your daughter is going through this and that you have to see her like this it must be breaking your heart. I know it hurt my mother. If I can do anything email me anytime. I would be glad to help in anyway I can.
Best wishes to you and your daughter in this hard time.
Vanessa
2007-11-29 21:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Money can be really hard to deal with when it comes to doctor visits, but right now, the most important thing is not your money, its your daughter. She needs you, not doctors. She needs understanding family members and a supportive environment, but still give her space. Try and find a different therapist. Although this one is cheaper, she obviouslly isn't getting anywhere, so it isn't worth any of the money being paid. Get money out of your mind and think about your daughter and what she needs. Her future, her hapiness and her life are much more important than any ammount of money. She is my prayers. I wish your family and daughter the best.
2007-11-29 21:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by * 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i used to do the same sort of thing when i was much younger and i wasnt able to tell anyone.In hindsight i think that i needed to go to the doctor and be put on medication......there are many reasons that your daughter could be doing this but personally i think that some medication might just help.also there are many web sites on the net under "mental health, illness"some of which can give you much better advice than anyone on here.Pls dont listen to those unkind and ppl surmising what could be wrong they dont know you or your daughter....and some of the advice that you have been given is quite rude.take care of yourself and your daughter.
2007-11-29 21:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am sorry to hear about your daughter, if you live in a big city or one with a lot of resources you can find group therapy for your daughter most of them are free or have a suggested donation, exercise is also good for depression it shouldnt be the only answer but it will pick her mood up a little, maybe the cutting is a cry for attention an after school program might be a cheaper solution as well,
2007-11-29 21:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by masterjedilukeskywalker 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She is suffering and trying to deal with it. The fact is, how much is her happiness and well being important to you. As a cutter, my family never cared, and what I wanted was for them to care and help me. Look at every option out there, research, do it because you love her.I know its exspensive and please don't guilt her about that my mother did that and it made me feel like it was my fault for being messed up and hurting. Research and try to do the best you can.
2007-11-30 01:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something that is always free and available to help and that is religion. Whatever faith you are will have means to help out your daughter and your families struggles. Even for those who are not religious are welcome into most churches for consouling. Good Luck with your problem and God Bless.
2007-12-01 14:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Chad M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut some expenses and keep her seeing a therapist.
2007-11-29 23:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a therapist is not going to help your daughter if she has not made any improvement thus far. it sounds like things can get stressful for you. remember, when you are stressed, so are your kids. have you tried talking to your daughter to see what's really bothering her? she's 13 so she is going to be stubborn, but if you really want to get her help, you have to be the one to give it to her, not a therapist. cutting is a cry for attention. it may seem like something that is out of your hands, but what it really looks like is your daughter really wants your attention.
2007-11-29 23:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
YOU
It's YOUR job to talk to your daughter about these kinds of things. Anyway, If she's depressed, all you have to do is spend more time with her and make her see how great life is. If she's just experimenting, then she'll get over it. Just ask her not to cut too deep or get it on the carpet.
2007-11-29 21:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by Prove god, then we'll talk. 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋