so i feel silly, but there is this crazy hot guy in one of my classes and we flirt like crazy. the other day he added his number in my phone and got my number and has been texting me like daily since. its weird cuz hes not my usual type, like hes pretty stupid, but really charming and hot... like super hot... and we dont really run in the same circles or anything, but i still kinda get the feeling that hes kinda into me,but idk if im just being silly? and then i love loking around and flirting with him, but i dont want to be too forward or anything, i dont want make a fool of my self but i dont wanna be too not standoffish and make him think i dont like him at all, i dunno how to deal withthis kinda guy cuz hes so much different than my usual type. hes much more confident (and has reason to be) but are all guys kinda the same? im so confused lol. have a hard time reading people... what do you think?
2007-11-29 13:08:24 · 30 answers · asked by Emily B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
since he gave you his number maybe you could call him and flirt with him on the phone and maybe you guys can talk siriously too and may be if you talk to him more you can get to know a different side to him and hell get to know a diffrent side of you.... and then may u guys can be more than flirting buddies. just call him up and ask him for hw and c what happens.
good luck
2007-11-29 13:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by what is it 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay sweetie, if you got his phone #, and you flirt so much, then i really do think you should be forward. ask him if he wan't to hang out some time, you don't have to call it a date if you don't want to. If you like him even though he's "pretty stupid and more confident", then i say give it a try. i mean, a guy just asked me out that was average/smart, popular, but not very cute. so i said no. and now we're still friends. so go ahead. what have you got to lose?
I wish you good luck and happiness,
Zoe
2007-11-29 21:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to feel out how he feels towards you ask him to see a movie.
If he starts acting all weird like he thinks you're asking him on a date just jokingly say, "No, dude. As friends." This will put him at ease and you won't feel so embarrassed.
If he doesn't act all weird but instead gets kind of excited (or really excited) then you'll know he's into you.
Best of luck to you!
2007-11-29 21:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's a guy,,,just like every other guy!! lol,,,he's showing and interest,,he's flirting, your flirting,,go for it. Get to know him, he could be a great person! And if it doesn't work out boyfriend/girlfriend wise,,,then you may just have a really great person who will be your friend,,and sometimes that even better! Good Luck
2007-11-29 21:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by iamsilvermoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out for a bite to eat. You can not go wrong with that. While you guys are there get him talking sooner or later the conversation will turn towards the two of you.
2007-11-29 21:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by Bigeyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go 4 it!!...Life's short, live sweet. (or in other words..take chances you only have one chance 2 go wild)..but it does kinda depend on what ur like, are you shy and really quite, or are you outgoing and loud and hyper? I mean if you have the guts to do go for it. I'd go for it i mean it's a 50/50 chance here if he doesn't like you, then he doesn't like you, theres nothing you can do about somethin like that, i mean if you don't get what you want, then, "that's that" at least you tried.
P.S.~Good Luck and have fun.
P.S.S~Remember, Life's short live sweet!
2007-11-29 21:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by rchl4454 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act confident too!!! If he already went through that trouble to get your number and he's texting you everyday, then just wait he will probably text you something like: "let's go out" just wait and say yes when he asks, act confindent too, that's the key
2007-11-29 21:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by CK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!!! do not let that go! opposite's attract! you'll actually have something to talk about. okay and he obviously likes you if he wanted your number. please be a little bit more forward and dont be afraid. guys like that. they need that and it excites them. drop some hints flirtatously and then reel that little fishy in! sounds like it would be a great relationship. you know how fun it is to have that new relationship feeling, and imagine having it with this guy..does it feel right? go for it!!!
good luck-mommy b
2007-11-29 21:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by mommy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it light. If it gets awkward, let him know. Don't play with someone's emotions or share his e-mails with your friends as a joke. Becareful, "many a truth is said in jest". Which means people will say stuff and the after you react, pretend they were just kidding.
2007-11-29 21:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by teleduster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should proceed very slowly. If you are in a different circle than him, well, guys can be insensitive jerks. Be suspicious of his motives and listen to your gut, not your heart or your head. Unlike those, your gut never deceives you.
2007-11-29 21:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋