okay,
my close friend likes this guy and i am happy for her exept that..
he likes me and i like him i havent told her that and she doesnt know
She also thinks that he likes her (but thats not true,he likes me)
so i sometimes lie to her telling her "oh yea i could tell he likes you" (wich is not true)
i dont know what to do!
his friends keep telling me that
we are going to get together.
i dont want to break my friends heart...
should i forget about him or should i leave him to my friend.
i am soo confused!
help!
2007-11-29 13:04:42 · 12 answers · asked by summerGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is that the female equivalent of "Bro's before Ho's"??? ;););)
Either way, at least ONE of your hearts is going to get broken - and walking away will only hurt you BOTH!
Ask yourself this - if the situation were reversed (where he liked HER, NOT you)... what would SHE do? Would she make her move, or be willing to walk away if you were...
The best thing you can do is wait for HIM to make his move - and for you to stop LYING to your friend about him!!!
Besides - how do you know that his friends aren't playing YOU the same way you are treating your FRIEND???
2007-11-29 13:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
..I think you gotta stop lying to her..she'll get more hurt later finding out that you lied versus just finding out that the guy she likes doesn't like her; exactly, friends are forever boys are whatever..she'll find lots of other guys later, but she may not find close friends as easily,..
You choose..what do you want more? a guy? or a friend? and who do you think will stay with you longer, and will help you more at times..?
just try to weigh it all out..youll see whos more important ;]
2007-11-29 13:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mimí..ツ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, is he worth breakign your friend heart over, maybe you should both forget about him. Guys have a saying, bros before ho's, I"m not calling you one, but maybe you should take a note from there book.
2007-11-29 13:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by ladyd694me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you know the guy will be promising, stick with your friend. I actually went after a guy and ditched my friends, but I knew he would be promising because he was also my best friend. Now he's my boyfriend, but the choice is up to you.
2007-11-29 13:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to said guy tell him you are rly good freinds with your friend and you dont want anything to come between you
and he'll probly ask some question like so now what or what do u want to do and then u mention your friend
orrrrrrrr u can look at your priorities and if he is higher than ur friend then he is higher than your firend
2007-11-29 13:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by joe b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a lot of drama I dont want to be in. But DO NOT lose your friend over a guy!
2007-11-29 13:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should tell her not you!
If he tells her, you'll know he is serious about your relationship, and isn't just leading you both on. Some guy's will tell anything to a girl to get into their pants... make sure he isn't still just playing the field with both your hearts!
2007-11-29 13:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by Darren 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just remember that guys have their own saying - bros before hos...
They look out for their own - and you should do the same! There will be other guys to drool over together - and ones that you can pursue without the competition!!
2007-11-30 08:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this same situation had happened to me before. see, if this girl is rili ur friend, she will understand. just tell her one day that u rili like the boy. then leave it at that. then when u guys start dating, u let her kno too. if shes rili ur friend, she wont let a boy come between ur friendship. iight bye!
2007-11-29 13:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by soulja girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD this is EXACTLY what i'm going through right now. except my friend knows i liked him, i liked him longer [and way more], and we've both asked him out. so i guess whoever he likes, the other one of you should try to be happy for you and him. if you really like him, and your friend does too, they both of you should want him to be happy. good luck!
2007-11-29 13:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by blondie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋