My dad won't trust me to do anything now! Nothing happened. Advice!?

Question

For weeks I convinced my dad into letting me have a house party in our basement. (Our basement is huge.) My dad agreed and said that I'm responsible enough. So my dad said that he would go to a movie or do something so that way I wouldn't get embarressed with having my dad lingering around. So EVERYBODY he was anybody came to my party.Then this guy was passing alcohol out to people! I said "No way. Get rid of it." Then my boyfriend comes over and says hey it's a party have fun! Then he gives me a shot. I was like "Get rid of it, or everyone is going home." Then he did this look and I just gave in. Then before I knew I went crazy! I felt like like I was flying at one point. Anyway my boyfriend kissed me and then I guess I took him up to my room and we began to make out on the bed. Then all of a sudden my door opens! My Dad was right there! Then he walks away and he tells everybody to go home. In the morning I told my dad nothing happened.

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Then he says ohh but something could have happened if I didn't come in like that. then he starts getting all upset and yells and stuff. Then he says drinking? When did you start drinking? You want to clue me in into your life now and then. Then I was like that was my first time drinking for your information. Then I said what I do isn't any of your bussiness. Then we started arguing and stuff like that. Now he won't ;et me go out with my boyfriend. Hang out with friends or anything!! How van I make my dad belive that NOTHING happened.

Answer 1

Your dad messed up too, he should never let the party unrupervised. Admit you made a mistake, you lost control, this happens.

Answer 2

NOTHING happened?
You lost your convictions and gave up your moral ground because you didnt want to lose your b/f hon.
You told them 2-3 times to get rid of the alcohol, then because you thought they would all think you were some kind of freak and reject you, you GAVE in.You took your b/f upstairs to your bedroom and if your dad had not came in when he did, you might be pregnant now.
All of this is what your dad did NOT want to happen and he was trusting you to stand your ground for what was right and you failed hon.It will take yrs before he will trust you again.One step towards that is admitting he was right and you are wrong.What if they all had kept drinking.Girls get drugged at parties and "date raped" people drink too much and die from alcohol poisoning.People your age is taught by TV, the music industry,Holly Wood that partying is the thing to do, they dont show you the flip side of the party and where your friends who is "anybody" will be 10 yrs from now.Some will be drug and/or alcohol addicts, some of the girls will be welfare moms with no dad's for their kids, they will be partying their lives away while their children's lives go to h-ll.Their kids will follow in their parents foot steps,the guys will either pay child support or go to jail and wont be able to hold down a job keep a car a driver's license or place to live due to their partying.THIS is the REALITY of partying hon.It isnt pretty but thats the majority of how most partiers live, the girls who dont end up as welfare moms just bar hop after their divorces from the party guys ending up with different versions of the ex husbands and end up alone and bitter and disillusioned with men because all they ever picked was partiers.Listen to your dad, he loves you and he DOES know whats best.