We had sex and are getting married. Well see I got ingazed and then that night we had sex.It was the best experience ever.But I am not pregnant.
2007-11-29 10:47:37 · 57 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you want to get married and are ready then go for it. But since your asking, it seems that you might not be ready for that commitment.
I'm 20 and married having our first baby. I never questioned it. And never needed to ask anyone.
2007-11-29 10:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your age really doesn't matter. What does matter is what you believe a "marriage" should be for you. Getting married because you had sex is not a good reason. Do you truly want to spend the rest of your life with this man? Do you have similar views not only on sex but on money, religion, children, and how to raise them? Are you both self-supporting? Do you trust each other enough to commit to each other all the legal and emotional responsibilities that come with a marriage license? Are you both in love with each other? Could you live together in harmony? How good are you at resolving conflicts with each other? Have you seen each other through tough times and are still able to support each other?
You really have to think about a LOT before you make such a serious life commitment. Think about it...and get at least 12 sessions with a marriage counselor to help objectively hash out any differences you might be facing if you choose to take this big step as a couple.
2007-11-29 10:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by Vangorn2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't get married just because you had sex (or got engaged, for that matter). At 25, you should be beginning to understand what you really want and if it is getting married (for the right reasons) then I wish you all the best!
2007-11-29 10:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would jump into marriage just because you had sex
you have to weigh out all the pro,s and cons and really feel in your heart that this is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with because you dont want the marriage to fall apart in years to come
and If I had a boyfriend I would personally wait two or three years before thinking about getting married because marriage is a very special thing to me and I would want it to last until death do us part
Good Luck
2007-11-29 10:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It take about two years to know somebody on a good and bad day. If you you both been through a lot of trials and tribulations and are still happily together then you are ready to live together. But don't get married because everybody does it or just because he's cute or he's pressuring you to. Just like you wouldn't have a friend only based reasons i just presented.. Best wishes.
2007-11-29 11:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ingazed? It's engaged, use your spell checker!!!!
I don't think you're ready for such a commitment!
I hope you're not getting married just because he took your virginity????? How long have you been dating him?
I got married at 25, but that was after dating my husband for a year and then being engaged for a year after that. We've been together for 10 years now, happily married for 8.
2007-11-29 11:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Aimee M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you had sex doesn't mean you have to get married (unless you don't believe in premarital sex). If you guys love each other and are in love with each other then you should. When the time's right you will find that somebody. Anyways, why are you asking people on this site for your life changing desicions?
2007-11-29 10:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to spend the rest of your life with him? Do you love him? I am getting married next year, I will be 25. I think this is a good age to get married.
2007-11-29 10:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 is a decent age, if you're the marrying type. It's a good thing you're already ingazed though. Getting married without being ingazed is tough in today's society. Make sure he buys you a nice big ingazement ring!
2007-11-29 10:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by jmattiesmufc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
Fun Fact= In new france a girl could marry at age 12
2007-11-29 10:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋