so i have alot of friends...and my "best friend" is a girl but all my other good friends..that i alwayz hang out with are ALL guys...somehow my parents.don't like d fact dat all my friends are guyz n tell me dat i'm not allowed to hang out wit them (even though i still do shh)so now me n my parents have many arguements dat my behavior has changed.(but is not true because i alwayz hanged out wit dem..even b4 dey knew about it)so theres no way dat my attitude has changed they juz sayin dat to make me feel bad.also my friends break dance (juzz like myself)n go to bboy jams (breakdance competitions) and since my parents don't like it wen i breakdance n i'm not allowed to join their crew (my guy friends r in a breakdancein crew dat i really want to join but i cnt because of my parents) or go to jams.they don't let me go out anymore at all.after school i have gymnastics n den i walk home wit ma guy friends, until ma dad sarted pickin me up...
what should i do so my parents can trust me?
2007-11-29 09:55:19 · 23 answers · asked by bgirl stacey!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Most parents are protective b/c they love U. Your lucky they care. You cant blame them for not wanting you to "mess up".
Guy friends are wonderful to have! I think having guy friends are easier & better b/c U don't have all the drama w/ the girl thing. Plus guy friends protect you too in there own way, atleast mine did, & there still around as good friends all these years later. Now that's a friend!!
Prove you and your friends are trustworthy and they have nothing to worry about.
2007-11-29 10:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you think is wrong with your attitude by asking ur parents and try to change that. Ask them why you can't do that anymore but the best way is to listen to them. You can try to find girl friends who has the same interests as you do. You can have a long talk instead of arguments. Anyways, i hoped I helped.
2007-11-29 18:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Zam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would be more upset that you can't spell, can't use any punctuation or any capitalization in your sentence.
Let me give you a quick lesson.
when NOT wen
that NOT dat
I NOT i
can't NOT cnt
then NOT den
always NOT alwayz
the NOT d
guys NOT guyz
and NOT n
hung NOT hanged
with NOT wit
my NOT ma
started NOT sarted
just NOT jus
saying NOT sayin
are NOT r
You need to capitalize the first letter in the first word of each new sentence as well as the word "I".
Maybe your parents have reason to worry, it appears that you are not learning anything in school. Maybe you should the energy that you are spending worrying about guys and use that time to STUDY.
2007-11-29 19:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your parents are being overprotective of you, they want what's best for you and they are worried i guess. And, no they don't say stuff to make you feel bad, they just don't understand the teeage mind, but if you still want to hang out with your friends, try talking to your parents, not arguing (that will not solve the problem), try being extra nice and tell them that your friends are well behaved and you like hanging out with them, i'm sure they will soften up and let you see your friends again.
2007-11-29 18:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is sad. Maybe u should talk to your parents about it, how you feel and stuff. Your parents are your parents but they cant tell you who you can hang out with and stuff. I know its hard but i think you need to talk to your parents and make them understand that you like your friends and that you dont want to stop hanging out with them just because they are guys. what they are not going to let you get married to a guy or something?? they need to trust you because you ar3 there daughter!!
2007-11-29 18:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by Gaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all when they find out your sneaking out, their trust is already low, you'll have to eat dirt for yrs just to get it up to zero after they find hon.
Also, you really don't have time to spend with boys seeing that time needs to be spent on spelling and grammar.
Boys can get you pregnant, all it takes is for you to fall for a "hot" guy all the other girls want and one who knows he is hot.Then you'll be taking care of a baby by yourself and no longer doing gymnastice or break dancing.
2007-11-29 18:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so you do have a lot of guy friends, just try to get new girl friends, you know so ypur parents dont feel like their "little girl" is hangging out with only boys, you do have to understand speciall if you are spending thatr much time with them, besides people who see girlz hangging out with a lot of boys see nem girkls as sl*ts
2007-11-29 18:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cud like start doing stuff like the little things ur parents trust u 2 do and little by little they will start to trust u more and maybe sum day soon they will trust u enough to do those things uwant 2
2007-11-29 18:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by surfgal1993 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk y they wouldnt let you hang out with them
guys are fun and wayy diff than girls
they have way different personalities and ideas about things
tell your parents yoyu dont agree with this desicion and make sure that they know they shouldnt make you not hang out with people .. thats just going to want u 2 go see them more
it matters on how good of a person they are
not their gender, ya know?
2007-11-29 18:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
stop using words like 'dis' and 'dat' and start acting more mature for at least 6 months to regain their trust.
2007-11-29 17:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by qscreech 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋