Question specifically for muslims...?

Question

Please dont be offended by this question, I just wanna know something...
I have a friend who is a girl who is muslim; She told me that she used to have oral sex with her boy friend atleast twice a week for 2 years... They broke up now..She claims that she is a virgin and thats coz of her religion...Isn't oral sex as bad as sex in terms of religion especially for a girl who is supposed to be so religious??? Also what does the religion say about sex before marriage???

Answer 1

Im not a muslim but even i can tell you that muslims do not approve sex outside marriage, this girl you knew might still be virgin but she is to be considered non chaste and promiscuos, for less than that she could be hanged in some Islamic countries.

Answer 2

According to Shariah Law she has to be whipped 100 times for doing fornication. Now if she were married then she would be stoned to death. Oral sex is bad because it reduces your wife/wives to the status of a dog or other animal. If she had sex then she's not a virgin. Dating is haraam(forbidden) in Islam so maybe she is Muslim in name only but only ALLAH(Subhanna wa ta'ala) knows this. Also she can only marry a Muslim man who had sex before marriage as well. She may not marry a chaste Muslim man as this goes against the teachings of the Qur'an. Men and women are not allowed to have friends of the opposite sex either.

Answer 3

An authoritative answer to these questions can come only from our Creator—Jehovah God. And in his Word he tells us to “flee from fornication.” (1 Corinthians 6:18) Just what does that mean? The Greek word translated “fornication” is not restricted to sexual intercourse but includes a variety of lewd acts. So if two unmarried people engage in oral sex or in fondling each others’ reproductive organs, they are guilty of fornication.

But could they still be considered virgins—that is, in God’s eyes? In the Bible the word “virgin” is used as a symbol of moral purity. (2 Corinthians 11:2-6) But it is also used in a physical sense. The Bible tells of a young woman named Rebekah. It says that she was “a virgin, and no man had had sexual intercourse with her.” (Genesis 24:16) Interestingly, in the original Hebrew, the word for “intercourse” evidently included other acts besides normal man/woman intercourse. (Genesis 19:5) So, according to the Bible, if a youth engaged in any form of fornication, he or she could hardly be considered a virgin.

The Bible exhorts Christians to flee not only from fornication itself but also from all forms of unclean conduct that could lead to it.# (Colossians 3:5) Others may ridicule you for taking such a stand. “‘You don’t know what you’re missing!’ is what I heard all through high school,” says a Christian youth named Kelly. However, premarital sex is nothing more than the “temporary enjoyment of sin.” (Hebrews 11:25) It can cause lasting physical, emotional, and spiritual harm.