im in a slump?

Question

I dont have a job . I live with my dad & have 2 girls. im a 24 year old single mom . I try finding work in my town ( it is very small) I have applied to about 16 jobs in the past few months . Noone has called me back . In the mean while I am tryng to get enrolled in school for nursing . Im flippin depressed Everyone dogs on me for not working & living with my dad I cant say working at a factory will raise my self esteem so I think school is the way out of poverty & that will lead to a more sucessful ,happy me . i need help cause I feel lost & on top of this all my ex husband wants me back ! So i have 3 major decisions to make , work at a factrory, or go to school or get back together with my ex Help someone

Answer 1

Your ex should at the very least be giving you child support. Don't get back with him: If he can't take care of his kids, he certainly won't take care of you.

Go ahead and take that course: That's probably your best chance of making a life for you and your kids.

As for the nitwits (let's be polite here) who are making you miserable- tell them where they can take their incredibly stupid inconsiderate selves.

I don't see you working in a factory either- though you should try to find something to do to get some income. In fact- you might even consider moving to another town, once you finish your studies.

Hang in there, Honey. It looks bad, but things will turn up.

Answer 2

Get back with your ex, if he treats you right and provides. Perhaps the two of you can work it out with counseling. Otherwise, there is probably a good reason you left him in the first place. Although you will get alot of student grants and loans as a single parent, live in student family housing, and get a degree, who will pay for childcare? Perhaps you should get someone to help you, either dad or ex, until you finish nursing school.

Answer 3

You do have a lot on your plate girl. But prioritize. Do you really want to go back to your EX?? Would it be a healthy thing for all concerned? If so, could you still pursue your nursing training? Or could you work part time and go to school too? Check for help on schooling, there are ways to do that and pay back later, or maybe if you have a community college in your area you could get a grant. Explore all possibilities and keep in mind, You can do anything, if you want it badly, you just have to want it!!!! I wish you much luck and happiness. You deserve it!

Answer 4

One day at a time-
Have faith and hope
that life will take a turn for the best
if you believe.
Follow your heart no one can
tell you what to choose or feel?

I think you need support and to believe in
yourself or no one else will.

peace

(Keep in touch if you need a true friend)

Respectfully,