my boyfriend said he wanted to have a child i dont agree at all because im only 15 what should i do?????

Answer 1

Um, don't do it. He's a moron. If he tries to pressure you, dump his asss.

Answer 2

I'm 23 and I feel like I am too young to have a child. I finished college and I want to get settled with a good career. At 15, you shouldn't be having children or doing what people do to have children. Your very young and you should wait to have kids for marriage. If you disagree with your boyfriend, it's time to say good bye because you are obviously going to be taking care of the baby which is a HUGE responsibility.

Answer 3

Don't have a child a 15. You need to have fun, be active, go out, see the world. Once you have a child you are tied to them, and you can't just go hang out with your friends, and be young. I would wait even a year after you get married to have a baby, that way you get to have time together for a while to become better acquainted, and stuff. You should not date anyone who tells you what to do like that either. I can only assume that he is older than you, and that can be dangerous. Go with your heart, don't get pregnant, you have so much time before you need to concern yourself with whether or not you want to be a mother or not. Find a new boyfriend, one that puts you and your interest first, not his own. You are worth so much more than that.

Answer 4

WHAT! Tell him absolutely no way.You are not ready physically or emotionally in anyway at 15. He is being selfish and selfishness is not a good trait in a parent! Tell him that! He will get bored and you will be left with the baby. You are only a kid and have so much more of your young life.I had a baby at 19 and your freedom goes down the pan.I love my little boy so much but having to get him babysat every working day is such a strain! And thats only for work think about when you want to go out!

Answer 5

15 is waaaay too young to be thinking of having a child. Please don't take offense, but no matter how much you've lived and seen, at 15 you're still only a child yourself. There's a lot of wisdom and experience that can only come with age...and you'll need ALL of it when it comes to raising a child, believe me.

I'm curious as to how old your boyfriend is, and why he wants a child. Tell him the truth: that you would like to wait before you have a child and take on such a gigantic responsibility. If he loves you, he'll wait...and unless something truly extraordinary is going on with your situation, I can't imagine why he wouldn't.

Good Luck!

Answer 6

Break up with him, and run away, quickly! Seriously though, at fifteen you are completely unable to realize the responsibility that comes with a child. (I hate to sound like your mom but I was once a 15 year old who thought I knew everything, and I later learned I didn't know ANYTHING) It sounds like you already know that though, having a child at 15 is not glamorous. If you have a child it will be your responsibility for a minimum of 18 years ... you have not even been alive for 18 years yet. Enjoy childhood ... hell, the older I get the LONGER I plan to wait to have children. Once you have a child your life will no longer be just yours, remember that. Enjoy your carefree teenage years, they will be over sooner than you think. Don't be in a rush to grow up, and don't fall for whatever your boyfriend is telling you!

Answer 7

Tell him to leave you out of it.

There are other girls willing to wreck their lives by having a child so young. You aren't.

Does this boyfriend have a job? Money? A home of his own? If not, he's a pretty poor choice to have a child with.

Ask him if he's willing to support that child for 18 years. In this day and age, that's how long he'll have to pay child support.

Answer 8

Well first off you are to young to be having a kid, and if your boyfrind is over the age of 16 then he should be put in jail because you are a Kid in the grand scheem of things and have no bussiness talking about having a kid at your age. You need to finnish shool and get an education so that you can provide a good life for a child one day in the future if you ever do decide to have a kid. Honestly, can you take care of yourself right now? how are you going to take care of a kid!!!!

Answer 9

Your still a child yourself! Trust me, you do not want a child. It is way too much work. You will never be able to sleep and you wont be able to finish school. And i bet in a couple of years you wont even be with this guy anymore. You have so much fun things ahead of you but if you have a baby then you will be stuck at home all the time

Answer 10

NO WAY! say no and no means no. and if he keeps pressuring you than dump him because he is a loser anyways. there is a reason why you think its wrong because you are only 15. trust your instincts, I dont know if this dude has some abandonment issues or what, but do you really want to be totally and utterly responsible for a nother human beings life and the way it turns out? at 15? no means no

Answer 11

Please don't do it.
You need to be stable in every way to have a baby. who cares what he wants - you're the one who will have the baby!
Honestly why does he want that???
Does he have a job, do u guys have a stable relationship?? A place to live???
this is a bad idea... i think u should ask urself if u want to be w this guy to begin with. AT 15 u still need a long time to get to know urself better & have fun. There are things that u honestly don't realize until ur like 25 I swear!
Good luck and be safe!