sometimes she still haunts me?

Question

the girl who dumped said the 'date' we had was "boorrrinng", and even if i tried to strike a conversation with her, she yawns, loud. she even indulged in it as if dissing me, and laughed afterwards...

i want my revenge..i want to be interesting...i feel like shes missing a lot by not knowing who i really am...i just couldnt get over the thought the one i liked thinks im booorrriiing, and stays away from me for that reason. im no longer attracted to her but i so want to prove her wrong! what can i do???

(I wrote this last last year...so many things happned and im not the same person anymore, but when i feel down, i tend to remember this rejection....why is that? is this normal? shes the only person who turned me down coz i havent 'ventured' since...and sometimes i still want her to see that im interesting...i dont even see her anymore)

Answer 1

there is nothing interesting about revenge and the time you take to make it is time wasted

the very best advise I can give you is to walk away and never look back

in time you will understand the wisdom in this. the better revenge if it ever presents itself is to treat her with the absolute respect of a dear friend, this can happen if you run into her with friends somewhere and when and if she bad mouths you, her friends will judge her

if she is broken down on the side of the street, rescue her by fixing the tire or getting her the right kind of help

demonstrate by your high standard and life that she lost out.

anything else proves her assumptions to be true

Answer 2

We all go through rejection sometime in our life. Swallow your pride and keep moving forward. . . don't even look back. What's done is done and she's obviously not worth your time. If you really want to get her back . . . meet someone who appreciates you and finds you interesting.