I need advice or help from a girl....?

Question

Okay if you answered my question about my personality change from 8th grade, you should know what this is about already.

Okay I saw one of the girls I like today and I had to help her today because I work in the media center at the school I go to. Surprisingly, I had no problem helping her and we even talked about some stuff she didn't need help with. What I can't stand is the fact that after I helped her and was done talking to her, I still went back to the way I was....feeling like I don't compare up to everybody else and no beautiful girl like the girls I tend to like would ever feel the same way about me as I would for them. I don't get why I feel like this because I have alot of good stuff going for me.

Answer 1

Honey- every single person on this planet feels that way guaranteed. I don't give a crap if they say they don't, THEY DO! It will just take you asking a girl out ONCE to realize that it wasn't so hard and now you've got a date OR rejection can NOT kill you and you will become stronger, and more confident than before- TRUST ME!! Either way- it's going to be good for you. It's like a band-aid RIP if off so it doesn't hurt so much!! ;-)

Answer 2

It's just part of the highs and lows of life! But you might need to check out the symptoms of depression. (google it!) When you say " I'll never compare to so & so" you're right, you won't ever compare. The question you should ask yourself is, Am I satisfied with myself? Am I happy with myself? Learn to live with no regrets, and you will be so much happier. The path to happiness is no regrets. Ask yourself every night, What is it that I did or did'nt do that I wish I did? Then, if you're graced with the gift of tomorrow fix it. Every day is a gift. Live like you'll have no tomorrow!

Answer 3

If you keep speaking that into existence, that no beautiful girl will ever feel the same, then it will always be that way. You have to speak and feel positive things, don't surround yourself with negativity. Don't continue to defeat yourself before you give it a full shot. I think before you try to pursue another girl, your going to have to work on yourself, your self esteem. You don't want to bring baggage; i know first hand wit boys.

Answer 4

Beautiful girls are sometimes the most lonely because all the guys are afraid to ask them out. Go ahead and ask her. All she can say is no. It may hurt for a bit, but you will get over it. Trust me. I've been around long enough to know.

Answer 5

i'm sure there's a lot of girls out there that would like you. maybe some that already do, but just don't want to tell you. just work a little bit on your self esteem and just keep talking to that girl. if you keep talking to her, you might find somethings out about her, or maybe even yourself.

Answer 6

i think that you should give yourself more credit. you never know how anyone is feeling. heyyy.. maybe she feels the same about you. you should'nt doubt yourself and just be who you are. If the girl you are interested in doesn't see the good things you have to offer, im sure there's another girl who does.>>>GOOD LUCK

Answer 7

Just remember that you are special and she came to you for help. If she didn't think you could help her, I don't think she would've asked you to help her.
We all have special gifts...Try exploring yourself to find yours...In time, another will see your gifts and decide that they can't live without you. Trust me, It will happen for you. Just be your sweet love able self til the right one comes along.

Answer 8

maybe work on your self esteem

Answer 9

I be like "oh-no she di-in't and she be like "oh yes I di-id!

Answer 10

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!