I can't see to get over it, and why should I?
We were watching a movie, and that's when he spit on me. I don't know what set him off, he seems to go from "really happy" to "really mean" within a short period of time. I try to tip toe around him and not do anything that might upset him, but the situation seems to be getting worse. I go to bed before he does, and when he comes to bed he wakes me up with insults and calls me hateful names and tells me he hates me and that I am grotesque, he says alot of really nasty hurtful things about me. When I confront him about it he tells me I am making it all up and that I am "WAY OUT THERE" why does he blame this on me? It's always my fault according to him. I honestly don't know what to make of this situation. Any advise?
2007-11-29 09:02:32 · 11 answers · asked by Mystery 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is so sad that your boyfriend did that to you. Why are you still with a person who says and does such mean and hurtful things to you?
Your partner should care for you and treat you right with love and respect.
2007-11-29 18:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by tinybubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like a lunatic. You really need to get him to sit down and talk to you about this. Be assertive too. If things dont change or get worse. Leave him
2007-11-29 17:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by Highwind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have split personalities!! you might want to check up on that ....and u know what i dont care how much u say u love him (if u do say that) but i think no human being should be treated like that and if i were u i would run as fast as i could b4 he hurts me worst!!!
2007-11-29 17:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by Ginger86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one, anyone that would do those things is mentally unstable. You need to pack your bags and leave or it will end up with him beating the crap out of you, its an abusive relationship. If you cant move home try a womans shelter but please please do something before its too late and you are a statistic..please
i am praying for you
ana
2007-11-29 17:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello? He spits on you, insults you, calls you hateful names, says you're grotesque, and says hurtful things about you.
You deserve better, ok?
2007-11-30 04:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in an abusive relationship. End it before it gets worse. PAck your bags quietly while he is away, and leave. Go somewhere safe, and don't look back.
2007-11-29 17:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by kelannde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not that he hates you, hes waiting for you to punch him on the nose............................... i think he needs get some help, if hes not willing to do this then get away from him, it could end up a lot worse, the other option you need to look into is, as he got someone else on the go? good luck hun x
2007-11-29 17:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by sharon jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"spitting on you"?? you got to be kidding me...and your asking what to do? You need to leave his Bi-polar azz......that guys needs medication and maybe an azz wipping....
2007-11-29 17:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by Slick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave this idiot immediately. And if he won't leave you alone, have some large guy friends pummel him. Maybe you could have him pummeled anyway.
2007-11-29 17:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Illnever T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a jerk. Dump him if youtruly haven't done anything.
2007-11-29 17:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by Linz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋