I am divorced from the guy I dated all through highschool. Now I dont know where to meet anyone if Im not set up by friends. I am really attractive but guys never aproach me, I mean I thought the way it works is a guy sees you thinks your hot and asks for your number. Am I totally wrong? Im only 24, but I feel like its been a million years since I was single. I dont want to meet someone through a dating service or anything...And I just moved to this city so I dont know anyone to go out with to like a club. HELP!
2007-11-29 07:51:49 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To the rude guy below: I am very hot. I get told I could be a model all the time by random people. So there =P
2007-11-29 08:12:36 · update #1
Im really shy...Dont know how to hit on guys.
2007-11-29 08:15:07 · update #2
Caddy, disregard those jerks that answered previously. Try a couple of the reputalbe dating sites such as E Harmony and Match.com and you can also go to places where people do things you enjoy, such as the gym, seminars, and plays and movies. Don't worry, you are young and soon they will come your way. Make sure you always smile and look as though you are open for conversation if you indeed are.
Good Luck
2007-11-29 08:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by Hilary B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try checking your paper for different singles events, or get involved in the community. Thats what I did, and things have been going great since. The more active you are, the more prospects there are, and if you like a guy and he is single... hit him up... go after him if he wont go after you... they may assume you are single.. (even though it stinks that your not and they think that, because they might have already met you and you dont know it). Just hang in there and get involved, get out of your place and meet people through events and whatnot. Otherwise, you will never meet anyone. And most importantly, be yourself, noone likes anyone who fakes themself or overdoes everything, in other words, throw hints, not yourself.
2007-11-29 15:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by movie_musician_0485 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends & co workers are a good way to meet someone. Getting involved in local organizations gets you "out there" meeting people.
And, my experience, the more attractive you are the less men come up to you. Either they're intimidated and/ or think you're already taken.
Dating services are more likely for the men who can't find a real date or someone of substance. They're more for the ones with no/low self-worth, insecure and/or the men looking for the younger girl to make them younger ... sex. Not a good thing if looking for a real, honest relationship.
2007-11-29 16:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would of said match.com and even though i am only 14 i've help set other friends up and match.com garantee to find you someone within 6 months but if you dont want to meet anyone through a dating agency why not just go out to a local club and act natural and see if anyone likes you (theres no harm in it)
2007-11-29 15:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by Cookie Monster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the library or a coffee shop don't look for guys in the bar if you are attractive you may be scaring the boys of remember we are shy timed things that act like big tuff guys to hide our own self doubt when were see a good looking woman ether thy are taken or thy are out of our league or so we think good luck hang in there
2007-11-29 16:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by irish_matt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the mall
2007-11-29 15:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by panamarandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The laundromat is a good place....
2007-11-29 15:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Confused 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe this is giving you the hint.... If a guy sees you and thinks your hot, he will ask for your number... GUYS DONT THINK YOU ARE HOTT!!!!!
2007-11-29 15:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by Van G 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
then go by yourself, you are a big girl.
2007-11-29 15:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by nyjae 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋