I dont get girls any more???

Question

Im 20 years old and I havent been with a girl for almost a year now. There was a time when girls liked me, but now it seems like they just dont want to talk to me or get to know me in any kind of way. I am a pretty good looking guy and im not a dumb *** or ant-social. I only have 1 string of friends but when ever single girls comes to party with us or hang out they are not interested in me and go directly to my friends instead. Even if they do talk to me thats all that happens untill the conversation dies down. I have tried all types of methods from straight out hitting on them, to just talking and then flirting, and almost any thing else imaginable includeing lame pick up lines to get a conversation started. The last girl I had was into me but after she had talked to this bitchy girl that seems to have spite and jelousy towards me for no reason; she broke up with me and went directly to my friend. I dont know if people are saying stuff to kill the compition but some one give me advic

Answer 1

look man, girls are girls. No one really understands them even themselves. :) In a party, stop pretending and playing those acts and just be yourself. If they're not interested, move on.. There's a lot of fish in the sea. Remember your statistics, girls to guys ratio is 7:1. Its easier to find good girls rather than girls finding good guys. :)

Answer 2

I think you might want to ask a close friend a delicate question. Like: "How would you rate my hygiene?"

Some guys just don't take care of their breath Or wear deodorant or wash their hair often. A messy look or stale breath is a real turn-off.

Go on the Internet and see if you can find a book geared for attracting the right kind of person. Read it and practise it.

Think about it: If all you are looking for is to get some action, that is also a turn-off to nice girls so maybe that subject came out too early in the conversation.
YOU:
("Even if they do talk to me that's all that happens until the conversation dies down. I have tried all types of methods from straight out hitting on them, to just talking and then flirting, and almost any thing else imaginable including lame pick up lines to get a conversation started")
THEM:
"Where does he get off with these corny pick-up lines?... and maybe he needs to bathe & brush his teeth and comb the dreads a bit. At least Iron his clothes and stop wearing those droopy drawers without a belt!)

Ask a good friend to tell you the truth, preferably a girl your own age, maybe the last girlfriend you had. Ask her to find out what the buzz is out there about you!

Answer 3

Well in most occasions girls shouldn't meet your friends or family unless they are "serious". Meeting those that are close to you give a sign of "the next level" sort of thing.

A girl also doesn't want to go to a party for a date. If you're interested in a girl try doing some one on one time with her. Planned activities, just you and her for a while. Then when you're sure you two may actually be in a relationship or may get serious THEN introduce her to your friends. Not necessarily at a party but more like a small get together, dinner, or casual drinks.

Once she's comfortable around your friends then take her to a party where she'll be able to socialize and talk causally w/ other besides you.

Giving cheesy pick up lines, introducing her to your friends quickly, or taking her out to parties for dates doesn't seem like you're serious. It doesn't seem like you're really interested in HER. And that is what most girls look for, is he really wanting ME for me or is there something else. Show her there isnt' anything else by just concentrating on her for a while.

Also, don't push the issue about meeting people so hard. No one likes a guy who comes off like he's insecure or something. Walk up to someone you're interested in and introduce yourself. Shake their hand and offer and compliment. Don't shower her with compliments, that shows insecurity. Smile and look her in her eyes. That's confidence, and offer a bit of a joke. Getting her to smile and laugh breaks down barriers. After a bit of small talk, offer to take her out then close the deal with her number. If she gives the line "I'll take yours" DON'T FALL FOR IT. You're giving up your hand. When she gives it to you CALL her the next day. Don't believe that myth crap about the 3 day wait. She'll forget all about you by then.

After that.. I"m pretty sure you'll do fine.

Good Luck

Answer 4

here are a few simple tricks when talking to a girl. first let them approach you because girls don't like being approached by strange men when there perverts and rapists out there. if no girls approaches you then go over there and find one you want to talk to. make sure she you don't any of her friends around and say hi how are you doing my name is... don't hit on her girls hate guys with cheesy hit lines. compliment her, don't seem to desperate, tell a joke make her laugh.Tell just enough information about yourself to keep her talking. Let her do most of the talking but still be a man and take charge not too aggresively. so play cool relax be yourself let her ask you for your number and then get hers. if she doesn't ask you wait till the last minute and ask her for hers say someting like can i have your number so i can call you sometime then exchange numbers. Do this and i gurantee you will leave with a number or the girl! if all else fails copy what your friends do.

Answer 5

Stop looking, and stop looking so desperate. Go out and enjoy your life as a single man. If you like yourself and enjoy what you are doing, people who share the same likes and dislikes will gather around you. Then, and maybe then, one special girl will stick out and you won't have to worry about her being spoken to by some 'beotchy' girl and being turned away because she will already be in your circle of friends and know you for you. Desperation gives off and odor that every skank and tart will gravitate to if for no other reason than free drinks until another mark comes along. Do yourself a favor, get to know yourself and enjoy your own company first and love will find you.

Answer 6

Maybe you were very young when girls liked you... You know irresponsible teenagers (like me), but now, *what can I say*, you're old... your a new person & maybe girls, now your age as well seek for something um... I can't find the word... something lasting longer... Maybe your a guy who has girls not for so long... *I know you might think I'm stupid & well I am and don't really know what I was talking about, 'cous I'm far away from the world of grownups, but that was my guess... So there, mission accoplished... 2points!!!*

Answer 7

You have a girlfriend, and why you are out looking for a new one is your own issue. Women can sense that you are in a relationship and that you would hit on them anyway is very unattractive to them. It makes them wonder if you would do the same to them if they decided to trust you and date you. I suggest that you break it off with your current girlfriend if you want to look around. It truly is that "what is on the inside that counts" to most women even if you are the hottest guy in the world - one that cheats seems very ugly to any girl worth dating or sleeping with.

Answer 8

Relax son,

I am 48 and I still don't understand women. But that is what makes it so fun. The trick is to be flexible. Just like men every woman is different. Just be yourself......don't put on a big act and you will be fine. Always treat them with respect and don't waste your time with the women that don't respect you.

Answer 9

CONFIDENCE IS KEY!!! If you walk around like you are confident and don't care weather they like you or not you will have girls all over you! Don't use pick up lines, don't hit on them just have a conversation and listen to them and when they see that you are confident and a good listener then you will have ms. right fall right into your lap!!!

Answer 10

hi try to change the way u approach girls be some thing more than u were change ur way of talking and check weathr some one is mixing their heads or telling false stories about u
gud luck