fyi: im not on drugs and i never have been. also, i just dont relate to anything the way my family does...we just dont agree about things.
2007-11-29 05:34:49 · 28 answers · asked by Kori's_Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell her to give you a drug test or leave you alone.
2007-11-29 05:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would spend a little more time with my family. Even if it's one hour a day, taking the trash out, helping with the cooking, setting up table, or even picking up the house. The reason they think what they think is probably because you come home from school, go directly to your room, and stay there until you leave the house. Today's world is missing the relationship between parents and kids due to the parent working all the time, and when they do get home, you made other plans and can't be with them. My suggestion is that you take a moment out of your day to ask you mom and dad how their day was at work. Show that you care about them. Talk, don't give short irritated answers. Just be nice. They are taking care of you after all right? Good luck honey. You will gain their trust with a little more effort coming from you.
2007-11-29 13:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start doing drugs? :P
NO, I am only joking. Really do NOT do drugs it will NEVER help. I think it is time to have a heart to heart with your family. They love you. They probably do realize you are different and will understand. Explain how you feel but also promise to spend some time with them. You can look for something common or familiar to build on. Like playing board games or card games. Something that anyone and everyone can enjoy. Maybe you are different but it doesn't mean you can't work on building a relationship with them and it doesn't mean you have to spend ALL your time with them. Compromise a little. Find the common links and take it from there. Good luck and I hope things work out. The teen years are never easy but take comfort knowing everyone has been through them.
2007-11-29 13:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents/parent thinks your doing drugs, there's a reason. Association is a big thing here. Do the people you hang out with do drugs (or just look like they do drugs)? do you smoke? do you stay out late and party all night? these are all things that point to more serious problems.
I hung out with these people as a kid and I recomend finding some new friends if this is the case. I thought I would never do that, but then I started drinking. I've quit since then, change your association and your desires will change too. 'How I brought myself from failure to success in selling' talks about this. changing your appearance makes all the difference in the world.
good luck
2007-11-29 13:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by dave49310 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In order to learn to understand be able to relate to each other time is needed. Life is short make memories and build a relationship with your family. We all dont have to "relate" or "agree'' on things all the time in order to establish connections. There was a time in my life were I to did not spend much time with the family and now I am glad that I have made them a priority even if they got on my nerves sometimes, I would rather have them on my nerves than not around!
2007-11-29 13:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by SimplyHappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents nowadays are more and more freaked out by the perspective of their kids doing drugs. I think she's lacking in confidence because you don't have a relationship with them. If you'd try to listen instead of disagreeing she will have more faith in you. Even so, with meth being so rampant can you blame her? She probably worries sick about you. No doubt that's not the way to go about it.
So next time, ask her: what would you want me to say to convince you? Ask her if a drug test will convince her and then do it. Tell her you can;t relate to her, if there's going to be suspicion as far as you're concerned. Tell her you are ready to be trusted, and then prove it. Simple as that!
2007-11-29 13:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't fix you not wanting to spend time with your family. All you can do is try to explain to her why you don't want too.
As for drugs, next time she accuses you or even before let her know you will go in for a drug test any time she wants you too. You can even buy them at Wal-Mart now. That should clear up any doubts about that.
2007-11-29 13:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing that you are a teenager, I agree with your mom, NOT that you are on drugs, but that you dont spend time with the family. Trust me spend time with them while you can ...
2007-11-29 13:39:49 · answer #8 · answered by Loo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it never hurts to spend more time with your family. of course it's more fun for you to spend time with your friends but they are your family and they love you
As far as the drug insinuation goes, tell her you would be more than happy to take random drug tests if that would ease her mind of it.
Sounds like you are a teenager... and well teenagers and parents are going to disagree.. that's just normal.
2007-11-29 13:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by yes, you have a problem. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest. my mom thought the same thing and i wasn't on drugs either. i was just not in the mood to deal with family. i think a lot of people go through that.
2007-11-29 13:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by Matilda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry i know what u mean about not relating to your family because i dont relate with mine that well, but i still go to family outings with them i just suck it up, and get it over with...and foe the drugs thing prove it to er...tell her to take you to the doctor, and get you a drug test...that will shut her up really fast...
2007-11-29 13:39:08 · answer #11 · answered by purple_peaches_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋