My girlfriend likes to be held down, biting, and having her hair pulled while we’re being intimate. I have my own desires as well but have not as of yet elaborated on them. I know she’s got at least somewhat of a kinky side and perhaps willing to explore it. I was just wondering how I could go about bringing that side out of her.
2007-11-29 04:40:55 · 13 answers · asked by Simplepeter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just try if she doesnt like she will tell you, surprise her with some rope one day or some toys
2007-11-29 04:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by Manny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That should be easy, bring it up while you have her pinned down on the bed with your teeth biting into her ear and her hair wrapped around your fist while you're hit'n it from behind..:):):):) I couldn't resist... sorry! Ha, ha,ha,ha.
From the sounds of it my friend, it doesn't seem as though it would take too much to bring out anything in her, she's already letting you know she's adventurous. She's opened the door, so why are you hesitating to go in.
Sounds more like you're afraid to ask than her being willing to oblige you. Just do it! It might be the best sex you've ever had.
2007-11-29 13:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by kskate2jbs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best time to approach it is when you're not already in the middle of the act because if you mention something she's REALLY not into, it could kill the mood (at the very least). During a normal conversation, talk about your sex life and what you've liked so far together. Tell her about your fantasies and what elements you'd actually like to incorporate into your love life. She will let you know what she'd be agreeable to.
2007-11-29 12:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a kinky girl....when my husband pulled my hair he opened the "flood gates" to my wild side! what im sayin is dont go full force with it all. its always good to test your boundries juss try a lil more every couple of nights and next thing you know your lil vixen will blow your mind! and it doesnt hurt to talk about it juss ask what turns you on or just how freaky are you? believe it or not talking about our sexual realationship turns us on...its like you really care about my pleasure and how i feel...a real turn on!!! hope i helped!
2007-11-29 12:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by anna bannana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she likes to be held down, biten, and having her hair pulled, im sure shes open to any kinky stuff your into. From what you say, her kinky side is out.
2007-11-29 12:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if your gf is already fairly relaxed with the sexuality (in a good open way).
I would just tell her what you like the next time you go to bed, and ask if she will explore these things with you.
Don't pressure her - just tell her and see what happens.
Good luck.
2007-11-29 12:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by tayhay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's letting that side of her already come out. You should let some of your desires out at the same time?
2007-11-29 12:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by sunfire1165 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's letting that side of her already come out. You should let some of your desires out at the same time!!!
2007-11-29 12:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easiest way go slowly while you guys are intimate and see her reaction. If she is okay with it then continue, next thing you know you got ur desires.
2007-11-29 12:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by Whiskey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a start. Ask her. Show her some sex toy websites and see what she likes.
2007-11-29 12:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋