i have a gf that i been with for 1 year. we been through alot and we both think were ment for each other. but lately she been busy with school and other stuff at home that she dosent call me or we never hangout anymore. she went 1 a whole month not calling me and i havent hung out with her since september. i aske her why she doing this she says she busy. i know she wouldnt cheat on me or anything. and i know she still in love with me like when we first met. so thats why i wait for her. but there is another girl that likes me and wants to get with me. i dont really talk to her because i dont want to start liking her more than my girl but im getting tired of waiting for my girl and waiting for her to have time for me. i wish things could go back to how it used to be when she had time for me. but my question is what would you do if you were in my shoes. do you think i should leave my gf or wait for her?
2007-11-29 03:47:54 · 9 answers · asked by Lil RAY RAY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say she honeslty has someone else she wants to be with on her mind so yes i would tell her your sick of how she's doing you and break up.
2007-11-29 03:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by *Kayla* 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO,it does Not mean she is seeing some one else.It could be she is having problems at home and maybe embarrassed to tell you.Or could be she is Scared that your relationship is moving to fast & if it has not been sexual yet then if she stays away from you then it can't move in that direction.Or she maybe pushing you away because she does not want to get sexual.How old are the 2 of you? Hope this helps sweety& Talk to her and just ask her what the problem is no matter if it will hurt you or not. Tell her you have the right to know if there is a future for the 2 of you and if not that you need to get on with your life.Good Luck & God Bless.
2007-11-29 12:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by vetteangel01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is tough to decide...but first are you sure the waiting around thing is not all in ur head...i mean are you sure she's REALLY busy and it's not just you that's thinking like that? if you are and if she really still loves you, you should wait...coz if you've been together for 1 year, that means there's something special b/w you 2 right? so i say you should wait
2007-11-29 11:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the two of you need to talk first, get everything out in the open, if nothing changes then leave.
2007-11-29 11:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by tc22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id go with the other girl...what diff does it make if your gf is to busy then you gotta get something to fill the void.. where she isnt making up for it.. if she cant even give you the time or day to talk to you to tell you what is goin on with her i dont care how busy she is.. she has time to chit chat here n there withyou and can make time to see you soo go iwth the other girl and if your old gf comes back then she comes back...deal with it as it happens..
2007-11-29 11:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by hooteehoo2u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even if she isn't with anyone else (which i HIGHLY doubt), she still isn't spending time with you. If someone else likes you, move on. She obviously wasn't WOMAN enough to talk to you. So do you. I would.
PS She's probably with someone else anyways - why else would she ignore u for a month? Go find a real love cuz she's not worth it.
2007-11-29 11:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes no one is that busy in the world, she has other options and you should to. Thats the 1st sign of a cheater, She has changed and got her groove on with someone new.
2007-11-29 11:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by Blond3 BombShell 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to let her know that it bothers you when you dont hear from her or see her for so long.. a whole month?? If she doesnt do anything to make the situation better.. then I think you should move on.
2007-11-29 11:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by mstuffyakim 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you still love her. then you need to talk to her about it. Tell her. And show her wat's on the table. how you feeling and wat you need. Now don't neglect wat she need's But have her look at your side. And look to her's. if you see that you can get back wat you had. Then you have your answer. good luck. And trust that your heart and mind both will make the right choice. peace.
2007-11-29 11:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋