2007-11-29 03:18:07 · 12 answers · asked by Venice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you feel it.
When shadyness begins and you start realize he is lying, bailing, making up excuse after excuse to convince you he is teling the truth.... and when you start realizing you would NEVER do the things he were doing unless YOU were being unfaithful.
If he isnt open, wont talk about his past, or his present... wont show you his phone, hides his emails, never answers his phone, deletes all numbers and messages....... mysteriously disappears for hours or days on end, etc.
Think about it.
If you feel it in your gut, you are usually right.
2007-11-29 03:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have so often heard that a woman's intuition in this respect is right - if you strongly suspect then they are! But that tends to topple over if you have a naturally jealous or suspicious streak.
Better to stick by the 3-day rule.
If it's an affair then the longest he will stay away from her is 3 days. By the 3rd or 4th day they HAVE to see each other. Watch for that pattern. This will be accompanied by a feeble excuse as to why he has to go out and feeble excuses as to why he's been gone so long. It will all add up in the end. Count those days.
2007-11-29 03:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by Gaspode the wonder dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you truly no the person in side and out it is kind of hard to tell. You need to watch his behaviors and see how its changeing. ask him about his day and see what new things come up. its hard to tell if they are being unfaithful or if you are being paranoid. but if he is being unfaithful it will come to light it always does
2007-11-29 03:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The biggest sign is when you feel it in your gut. (As long as you don't always have that "feeling" it should be pretty on point as a woman.) If there are any sudden changes in his behavior. He gets defensive when you ask him questions he previously had no problem with. You find another chicks draws in his house. GET A BLACK LIGHT!!! LOL!! I don't know!
2007-11-29 03:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They have late meetings, take calls in the other room, call you only by a nickname... like baby or hun, smell like perfume, don't want sex as often, don't want you to see their phone... but don't get too pushy with your beau, it may just be insecurity on your part. I'd start by asking them about it. Sometimes you just know.
2007-11-29 03:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by myluv115 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't get to know till the last moment. Then you feel your heart ripped out and stepped on.
That how i felt after 11 years with someone.
2007-11-29 03:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by kevin02915 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know. It's called intuition. Kind of like when you get that gut feeling that makes you nervous and nauseated.
2007-11-29 03:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by peyton31602 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you start to "grow apart," they begin to spend more of their time (especially the time spent with you) being "busy," they begin to flip on you whenever you ask a question, don't answer your calls, or it could be the oppisite he(or she) feels sorry so they get super close. So on.
2007-11-29 03:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by l o v e l y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its hard to tell for any of us. you know that person better than any of us do.
look for signs of things that are completely out of the blue things hes never done before. and see if things like that keep happening.
2007-11-29 03:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will be able to feel it when it happens to you. Go ahead and check it out and make a decision.
2007-11-29 03:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mermaid 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋